20 Questions

Christmas Questions to Ask Kids

Fun and engaging Christmas questions to ask kids that spark their imagination, create holiday memories, and bring joy to the festive season.

1

What's your favorite thing about Christmas?

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Why this works

This open-ended question lets kids share what they love most about the holiday and helps you understand their perspective.

2

If you could give any gift in the world, what would it be and who would you give it to?

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Why this works

This question reveals their values, relationships, and imagination while encouraging them to think about giving to others.

3

What's the funniest thing that ever happened to you during Christmas?

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Why this works

Sharing funny memories creates laughter and bonding while helping kids recall positive holiday experiences.

4

If you could have Christmas dinner with anyone (real or fictional), who would it be?

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This imaginative question reveals their interests, heroes, and dreams while encouraging creative thinking.

5

What's your favorite Christmas song and why do you like it?

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Music is a big part of Christmas, and this question helps you understand their musical preferences and emotional connections.

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If you could decorate a Christmas tree any way you wanted, what would it look like?

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This creative question lets kids express their imagination and design skills while thinking about holiday traditions.

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What's the best Christmas present you ever received and why was it special?

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This question helps kids reflect on meaningful gifts and the emotions behind them, not just the material value.

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If you could be any Christmas character for a day, who would you choose?

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This playful question encourages imagination and helps you understand their interests in Christmas stories and characters.

9

What's your favorite Christmas tradition in your family?

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Learning about family traditions helps you understand their family culture and what makes Christmas special for them.

10

If you could have Christmas in any place in the world, where would you choose?

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This question encourages geographical thinking and helps you understand their interests in different cultures and places.

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What's the most magical thing about Christmas to you?

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This question taps into their sense of wonder and helps you understand what they find most enchanting about the holiday.

12

If you could invent a new Christmas tradition, what would it be?

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This creative question encourages innovation and helps kids think about what they value in holiday celebrations.

13

What's your favorite Christmas movie and what do you like about it?

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Movies are a big part of Christmas culture, and this question helps you understand their entertainment preferences and values.

14

If you could help Santa with one thing, what would you choose?

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This question encourages empathy and helping others while letting kids imagine being part of the Christmas magic.

15

What's the best part of Christmas morning for you?

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This question helps you understand their excitement and what they look forward to most about Christmas Day.

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If you could give Christmas a new name, what would you call it?

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This creative question encourages wordplay and helps kids think about what Christmas means to them personally.

17

What's your favorite Christmas food and why do you like it?

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Food is a big part of holiday celebrations, and this question helps you understand their culinary preferences and family traditions.

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If you could have Christmas lights that could do anything, what would they do?

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This imaginative question encourages creative thinking about technology and magic while staying on the Christmas theme.

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What's the most important thing about Christmas to you?

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This reflective question helps kids articulate their values and what they find most meaningful about the holiday.

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If you could write a letter to Santa about anything, what would you tell him?

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Why this works

This question encourages communication and helps you understand their thoughts, concerns, and wishes beyond just gift requests.

Best Practices for Asking Kids Christmas Questions

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Be Enthusiastic and Engaging

Show genuine interest in their answers. Your enthusiasm will encourage them to share more and feel valued.

Listen Without Judgment

Accept their answers as they are. Don't correct their imagination or try to make their answers more 'realistic.'

Ask Follow-up Questions

Show interest by asking follow-up questions like 'Why do you think that?' or 'Tell me more about that.'

Create a Safe Space

Make sure they feel comfortable sharing their thoughts without fear of being laughed at or criticized.

Question Sequences

The Imagination Sequence

1
If you could give any gift in the world, what would it be and who would you give it to?
2
If you could have Christmas dinner with anyone (real or fictional), who would it be?
3
If you could be any Christmas character for a day, who would you choose?
4
If you could have Christmas lights that could do anything, what would they do?

The Memory and Tradition Sequence

1
What's your favorite Christmas tradition in your family?
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What's the funniest thing that ever happened to you during Christmas?
3
What's the best Christmas present you ever received and why was it special?
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What's the best part of Christmas morning for you?

The Creative Thinking Sequence

1
If you could decorate a Christmas tree any way you wanted, what would it look like?
2
If you could invent a new Christmas tradition, what would it be?
3
If you could give Christmas a new name, what would you call it?
4
If you could write a letter to Santa about anything, what would you tell him?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Rush Their Answers

Give kids time to think and respond. Don't interrupt or finish their sentences for them.

Don't Judge Their Imagination

Don't tell them their ideas are silly or unrealistic. Their imagination is valuable and should be encouraged.

Don't Focus Only on Gifts

While gifts are fun to talk about, don't make the conversation only about material things. Focus on experiences and feelings too.

Don't Compare Their Answers

Don't compare one child's answers to another's. Each child's perspective is unique and valuable.

Conversation Templates

The Getting to Know You Framework

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Step 1: Start with: 'What's your favorite thing about Christmas?'
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Step 2: Follow with: 'What's your favorite Christmas tradition in your family?'
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Step 3: Ask: 'What's the most magical thing about Christmas to you?'
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Step 4: Close with: 'What's the most important thing about Christmas to you?'

The Creative Imagination Framework

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Step 1: Start with: 'If you could give any gift in the world, what would it be and who would you give it to?'
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Step 2: Follow with: 'If you could be any Christmas character for a day, who would you choose?'
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Step 3: Ask: 'If you could invent a new Christmas tradition, what would it be?'
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Step 4: Close with: 'If you could write a letter to Santa about anything, what would you tell him?'

Further Reading

"The Polar Express" by Chris Van Allsburg
"How the Grinch Stole Christmas" by Dr. Seuss
"A Christmas Carol" by Charles Dickens
Family Christmas traditions and activities

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