20 Questions

DEI Questions to Ask

Thoughtful questions to explore diversity, equity, and inclusion that demonstrate your commitment to creating inclusive environments and understanding different perspectives.

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What does diversity, equity, and inclusion mean to you, and how do you see these concepts playing out in your daily life?

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Why this works

This question opens up a personal exploration of DEI concepts and allows the person to share their unique understanding and relationship with these important issues.

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How do you approach creating inclusive environments where everyone feels valued and respected?

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Why this works

This question explores the practical aspects of inclusion and how the person works to create environments where all individuals can thrive.

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What experiences have shaped your understanding of diversity and inclusion, and how have they influenced your perspective?

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Why this works

This question invites the person to reflect on their journey with DEI and share meaningful experiences that have influenced their understanding.

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How do you handle situations where you encounter bias or discrimination, and what strategies do you use to address these issues?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's approach to addressing bias and discrimination while showing you're thinking about practical solutions to these challenges.

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What role do you see yourself playing in promoting equity and inclusion in your community or workplace?

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Why this works

This question helps understand the person's commitment to DEI work and how they see themselves contributing to creating more equitable environments.

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How do you approach learning about different cultures, perspectives, and experiences that are different from your own?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's approach to learning about diversity and shows you're thinking about how to expand your understanding of different perspectives.

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What challenges have you faced in promoting diversity and inclusion, and how have you overcome them?

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Why this works

This question acknowledges that DEI work can be challenging and explores how the person navigates these difficulties while maintaining their commitment to inclusion.

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How do you ensure that all voices are heard and valued in group settings, especially those from underrepresented backgrounds?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's approach to creating inclusive group dynamics and shows you're thinking about how to amplify marginalized voices.

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What resources or training have you found most helpful in developing your understanding of diversity, equity, and inclusion?

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Why this works

This question helps understand the person's learning journey with DEI and can provide valuable insights into resources and approaches that have been effective.

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How do you approach difficult conversations about race, gender, or other aspects of identity?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's approach to challenging conversations and shows you're thinking about how to engage in meaningful dialogue about identity.

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What does allyship mean to you, and how do you practice it in your daily life?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's understanding of allyship and how they work to support marginalized communities and individuals.

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How do you handle situations where you realize you've made a mistake or said something that was unintentionally harmful?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's approach to learning from mistakes and shows you're thinking about how to grow and improve in your DEI understanding.

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What role do you see education playing in promoting diversity, equity, and inclusion, and how can we make education more accessible to all?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's understanding of the connection between education and DEI and shows you're thinking about systemic approaches to inclusion.

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How do you approach building relationships with people from different backgrounds and experiences?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's approach to cross-cultural relationships and shows you're thinking about how to build meaningful connections across differences.

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What does it mean to you to be an inclusive leader, and how do you work to develop these skills?

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This question explores the person's understanding of inclusive leadership and shows you're thinking about how to develop these important skills.

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How do you approach addressing systemic inequities and working toward more equitable outcomes?

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This question explores the person's approach to systemic change and shows you're thinking about how to address root causes of inequity.

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What role do you see technology playing in promoting diversity, equity, and inclusion, and how can we ensure technology is accessible to all?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's understanding of the intersection of technology and DEI and shows you're thinking about how to make technology more inclusive.

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How do you approach supporting colleagues or friends who are facing discrimination or bias?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's approach to supporting others and shows you're thinking about how to be an effective ally and advocate.

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What does it mean to you to create a sense of belonging for everyone, and how do you work to achieve this?

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This question explores the person's understanding of belonging and shows you're thinking about how to create environments where everyone feels included.

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How do you approach measuring and evaluating progress in diversity, equity, and inclusion efforts?

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Why this works

This question explores the person's approach to accountability in DEI work and shows you're thinking about how to ensure these efforts are effective and sustainable.

Best Practices for DEI Conversations

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Be Respectful and Open-Minded

Approach DEI conversations with respect for different perspectives and experiences. Be open to learning about viewpoints that may differ from your own.

Listen Without Judgment

When someone shares their experiences with diversity, equity, and inclusion, listen with an open heart and mind. Avoid judging or dismissing their perspective.

Share Your Own Experiences

While listening is important, sharing your own experiences with DEI can create a deeper connection and more meaningful conversation.

Question Sequences

The Personal Journey Sequence

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Start with: "What does diversity, equity, and inclusion mean to you, and how do you see these concepts playing out in your daily life?"
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Follow with: "What experiences have shaped your understanding of diversity and inclusion, and how have they influenced your perspective?"
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Deepen with: "What challenges have you faced in promoting diversity and inclusion, and how have you overcome them?"

The Action-Focused Sequence

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Start with: "How do you approach creating inclusive environments where everyone feels valued and respected?"
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Follow with: "What role do you see yourself playing in promoting equity and inclusion in your community or workplace?"
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Deepen with: "How do you approach addressing systemic inequities and working toward more equitable outcomes?"

Common Pitfalls

Don't Try to Convert or Convince

Avoid trying to convert others to your specific DEI beliefs or convince them that your approach is the only way. Focus on understanding and learning from each other.

Don't Dismiss or Minimize Their Experiences

Even if you don't share their experiences, don't dismiss or minimize their perspective. Show respect for their journey and understanding.

Don't Ask Questions That Are Too Personal Too Soon

DEI topics can be deeply personal and sensitive. Build trust and rapport before asking very personal questions about their experiences with discrimination or bias.

Conversation Templates

The Personal Explorer

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Step 1: Start with: "What does diversity, equity, and inclusion mean to you, and how do you see these concepts playing out in your daily life?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "What experiences have shaped your understanding of diversity and inclusion, and how have they influenced your perspective?"
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Step 3: Deepen with: "What challenges have you faced in promoting diversity and inclusion, and how have you overcome them?"

The Action Builder

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Step 1: Start with: "How do you approach creating inclusive environments where everyone feels valued and respected?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "What role do you see yourself playing in promoting equity and inclusion in your community or workplace?"
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Step 3: Deepen with: "How do you approach addressing systemic inequities and working toward more equitable outcomes?"

Further Reading

"The Art of Conversation" by Catherine Blyth
"How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie
"The Charisma Myth" by Olivia Fox Cabane
"Never Split the Difference" by Chris Voss

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