20 Questions

Good Questions to Ask College Students

Connect with college students through thoughtful questions that reveal their experiences, challenges, and aspirations while building meaningful relationships across generations.

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What's the most surprising thing about college life?

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Why this works

Opens up their unique perspective while revealing what aspects of college have been most unexpected or eye-opening for them.

2

What's your favorite class this semester, and why?

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Why this works

Shows interest in their academic journey while revealing what subjects and teaching styles they find most engaging.

3

How do you balance academics with your social life?

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Why this works

Demonstrates understanding of their challenges while revealing their strategies for managing time and priorities.

4

What's the biggest challenge you've faced in college so far?

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Shows empathy for their struggles while revealing what obstacles they've encountered and how they've handled them.

5

What's your favorite way to study or learn?

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Reveals their learning style while showing what methods and approaches work best for their academic success.

6

What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?

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Opens up their intellectual curiosity while revealing what topics and ideas they find most fascinating.

7

How do you handle stress and pressure during exams?

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Shows concern for their well-being while revealing their coping strategies and stress management techniques.

8

What's your dream job or career path?

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Reveals their aspirations while showing what they're working toward and what motivates their academic choices.

9

What's the best advice you've received about college?

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Shows interest in their guidance while revealing what wisdom has been most valuable to their college experience.

10

How do you make friends and build relationships in college?

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Demonstrates interest in their social development while revealing their approach to building connections and community.

11

What's something you wish you knew before starting college?

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Reveals their hindsight while showing what information or preparation would have been most helpful for their transition.

12

How do you stay motivated when classes get tough?

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Shows interest in their resilience while revealing their strategies for maintaining motivation during difficult times.

13

What's your favorite thing about your college campus?

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Opens up positive aspects while revealing what they value most about their college environment and community.

14

How do you handle homesickness or being away from family?

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Shows empathy for their emotional challenges while revealing their strategies for maintaining connections and coping with distance.

15

What's the most valuable skill you've developed in college?

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Reveals their growth while showing what abilities and competencies they've gained through their college experience.

16

How do you manage your finances as a college student?

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Shows interest in their practical challenges while revealing their approach to budgeting and financial responsibility.

17

What's your approach to choosing classes and planning your schedule?

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Demonstrates interest in their academic planning while revealing their strategies for course selection and time management.

18

How do you stay healthy and take care of yourself in college?

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Shows concern for their well-being while revealing their approach to physical and mental health during college.

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What's something you're looking forward to in your remaining college years?

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Reveals their future plans while showing what experiences and opportunities they're most excited about.

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How do you think college is preparing you for the real world?

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Why this works

Shows interest in their perspective while revealing how they connect their academic experience to future career and life goals.

Connecting with College Students

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Show Genuine Interest

Ask questions that demonstrate you're interested in their unique experiences and perspectives. This creates connection and shows you value their insights.

Be Supportive and Encouraging

College can be challenging, so focus on being supportive and encouraging. Ask about their successes and offer encouragement for their struggles.

Respect Their Independence

Recognize that college students are developing their independence. Ask questions that show you respect their autonomy and decision-making.

Question Sequences

The Academic Explorer

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What's your favorite class this semester, and why?
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What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?
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What's the most valuable skill you've developed in college?

The Life Balance Focus

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How do you balance academics with your social life?
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How do you handle stress and pressure during exams?
3
How do you stay healthy and take care of yourself in college?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Make Assumptions About Their Experience

Don't assume all college students have the same experience. Ask open-ended questions that allow them to share their unique perspective.

Avoid Being Overly Parental

Don't lecture or give unsolicited advice. Ask questions that show interest in their experience rather than trying to guide or direct them.

Don't Focus Only on Academics

College life is about more than just classes. Ask about their social life, personal growth, and overall experience.

Conversation Templates

The Academic Supporter

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Step 1: Start with: "What's your favorite class this semester, and why?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?"
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Step 3: Deepen with: "What's the most valuable skill you've developed in college?"

The Life Explorer

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Step 1: Begin with: "What's the most surprising thing about college life?"
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Step 2: Explore with: "What's the biggest challenge you've faced in college so far?"
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Step 3: Connect with: "What's something you're looking forward to in your remaining college years?"

Further Reading

"The Naked Roommate" by Harlan Cohen
"College Success" by Amy Baldwin
"The Freshman Survival Guide" by Nora Bradbury-Haehl and Bill McGarvey

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