20 Questions

Good Questions to Ask Consulting Coffee Chat

Insightful questions to understand consulting life, career trajectory, and whether the firm and role are the right fit for you.

1

What does a typical week look like for you in your current role?

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Why this works

Provides realistic day-to-day context beyond recruiting pitches and job descriptions.

2

What drew you to consulting, and how has your perspective evolved since joining?

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Why this works

Reveals motivations and whether the reality matched expectations.

3

How would you describe the firm's culture compared to other places you've worked or know of?

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Why this works

Invites honest comparison and helps you understand cultural differentiators.

4

What's been the most rewarding project or client engagement you've worked on?

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Why this works

Shows what work is valued and what types of problems are most fulfilling.

5

What's been the most challenging aspect of consulting that you didn't expect?

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Why this works

Surfaces hidden pain points and whether you're prepared for the realities.

6

How is work-life balance, and what does the firm do to support it (or not)?

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Gets at real hours and whether sustainability is a priority or just rhetoric.

7

How much input do you have over project staffing and the work you take on?

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Why this works

Clarifies whether you'll have agency over your career or be assigned wherever needed.

8

What does professional development look like—training, mentorship, or learning on the job?

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Why this works

Shows how skill-building is supported and whether growth is structured or ad-hoc.

9

How has your career progressed since you started, and what made those transitions possible?

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Why this works

Provides insight into advancement timelines and what behaviors or outcomes drive promotion.

10

What's the team dynamic like—collaborative, competitive, or somewhere in between?

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Why this works

Reveals whether the culture rewards teamwork or individual achievement.

11

How does the firm handle travel expectations post-pandemic?

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Why this works

Clarifies whether you'll be on the road constantly or if hybrid/remote is now standard.

12

What types of clients and industries do you typically work with?

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Why this works

Shows the variety and whether you'll get exposure to areas you're interested in.

13

How does feedback work here—formal reviews, informal check-ins, or project debriefs?

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Assesses how you'll know if you're on track and whether coaching is built in.

14

What advice would you give your younger self before starting in consulting?

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Why this works

Invites reflection and often surfaces lessons learned the hard way.

15

How does the firm support consultants who want to specialize versus stay generalist?

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Why this works

Clarifies whether depth or breadth is valued and whether you can build expertise.

16

What do people who leave the firm typically go on to do?

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Why this works

Assesses exit opportunities and whether consulting is a launchpad or destination.

17

How does the firm approach diversity, equity, and inclusion in practice?

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Why this works

Shows whether DEI is real or performative and how it shows up day-to-day.

18

What's something you wish you'd known before accepting your offer?

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Why this works

Invites candor and often reveals insights you won't get from recruiters.

19

How connected do you feel to leadership, and are junior consultants' voices heard?

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Why this works

Assesses hierarchy and whether the firm is top-down or values input from all levels.

20

Would you make the same choice to join this firm again, knowing what you know now?

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Why this works

A direct, high-signal question that often reveals true satisfaction or regret.

Making the Most of Coffee Chats

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Before the Chat

1
Research the person's background on LinkedIn to tailor questions.
2
Prepare 5–7 questions but be ready to follow the conversation organically.
3
Know what you're optimizing for—culture, learning, lifestyle, prestige, or money.
4
Bring genuine curiosity, not an interrogation mindset.

During the Conversation

Listen more than you talk—this is their time to share.
Ask follow-ups to dig deeper into answers that intrigue you.
Share a bit about yourself to build rapport, but keep it brief.
Take mental notes and jot down key takeaways afterward.

After the Chat

Send a thank-you email within 24 hours referencing something specific.
Ask if they'd be open to staying in touch or answering follow-ups.
Reflect on whether their experience aligns with what you want.
Reach out to 3–5 people at different levels to get multiple perspectives.

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