20 Questions

Questions to Ask a British Person

Engaging and culturally curious questions that help you learn about British culture, traditions, and perspectives while building connections and understanding across cultural differences.

1

What's your favorite British tradition or custom and why do you think it's important?

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Why this works

Opens up conversation about their cultural heritage and reveals what they value about British traditions, often leading to interesting stories and cultural insights.

2

What's the best thing about living in Britain and what makes you proud to be British?

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Why this works

Shows their national pride and reveals what they find most appealing about British culture and society, often leading to discussions about values and lifestyle.

3

What's your favorite British food and what makes it special to you?

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Why this works

Reveals their culinary preferences and often leads to discussions about comfort food, family traditions, and what they find appealing about British cuisine.

4

What's the most British thing you've ever done or said?

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Why this works

Encourages self-reflection and often leads to funny stories that showcase British humor, understatement, and cultural quirks.

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What's your favorite British TV show or film and what do you love about it?

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Why this works

Shows their entertainment preferences and reveals what they find appealing about British humor, storytelling, and cultural references.

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What's the most confusing thing about British culture that you think outsiders don't understand?

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Why this works

Reveals their awareness of cultural differences and often leads to interesting discussions about British social norms, humor, and communication styles.

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What's your favorite British holiday or celebration and how do you typically celebrate it?

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Why this works

Shows their approach to celebrations and reveals what they find meaningful about British holidays and traditions.

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What's the most British weather experience you've ever had?

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Why this works

Encourages storytelling about British weather and often leads to funny discussions about rain, tea, and how weather affects daily life.

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What's your favorite British accent or regional dialect and what do you find appealing about it?

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Why this works

Shows their appreciation for linguistic diversity and often leads to discussions about regional differences and cultural identity.

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What's the most British thing you've ever heard someone say?

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Why this works

Encourages sharing of amusing British expressions and often leads to discussions about language, humor, and cultural communication styles.

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What's your favorite British sport or pastime and what do you enjoy about it?

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Why this works

Reveals their recreational preferences and often leads to discussions about British sports culture and what they find engaging about these activities.

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What's the most British way you've ever handled a difficult situation?

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Why this works

Encourages self-reflection and often leads to funny stories that showcase British stoicism, humor, and approach to problem-solving.

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What's your favorite British place to visit and what makes it special to you?

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Why this works

Shows their connection to place and often leads to discussions about British geography, history, and what they find appealing about different locations.

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What's the most British thing you've ever eaten and what did you think of it?

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Why this works

Reveals their food experiences and often leads to discussions about British cuisine, comfort food, and culinary traditions.

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What's your favorite British expression or saying and what does it mean to you?

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Why this works

Shows their appreciation for British language and often leads to discussions about linguistic quirks, humor, and cultural communication.

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What's the most British thing you've ever witnessed someone else do?

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Why this works

Encourages storytelling and often leads to funny anecdotes that showcase British social norms, humor, and cultural behaviors.

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What's your favorite British music or artist and what do you love about their style?

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Why this works

Shows their musical preferences and often leads to discussions about British music culture and what they find appealing about British artists.

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What's the most British thing you've ever said without realizing it?

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Why this works

Encourages self-awareness and often leads to funny stories about unconscious cultural expressions and British communication styles.

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What's your favorite British tradition that you think more people should know about?

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Why this works

Shows their cultural pride and often leads to discussions about lesser-known British customs and what they find valuable about these traditions.

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What's the most British way you've ever celebrated something?

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Why this works

Encourages storytelling about celebrations and often leads to discussions about British party culture, social norms, and how they approach special occasions.

Best Practices for British Cultural Conversations

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Show Genuine Interest in British Culture

British people appreciate when you show genuine interest in their culture and traditions. Ask follow-up questions that demonstrate you're listening and want to understand their perspective.

Be Ready to Share Your Own Cultural Experiences

The best cultural conversations are mutual. Be prepared to share your own cultural experiences and perspectives to create a more engaging and reciprocal conversation.

Focus on the Stories Behind Their Answers

While it's fun to learn about British culture, the most interesting part is often the personal stories and experiences behind their answers. Ask about the stories and memories.

Question Sequences

The Culture and Traditions Sequence

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What's your favorite British tradition or custom and why do you think it's important?
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What's the best thing about living in Britain and what makes you proud to be British?
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What's your favorite British holiday or celebration and how do you typically celebrate it?

The Personal Experiences Flow

1
What's the most British thing you've ever done or said?
2
What's the most British thing you've ever heard someone say?
3
What's the most British way you've ever handled a difficult situation?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Rely on Stereotypes

Avoid questions based on British stereotypes. Focus on genuine cultural curiosity rather than assumptions about tea, weather, or other clichés.

Avoid Overly Personal Questions

While cultural questions are generally fun, avoid questions that might be too personal or invasive, especially in early conversations.

Don't Make It an Interview

These questions should feel like natural conversation, not an interrogation. Space them out and let the conversation flow organically.

Conversation Templates

The Culture and Traditions Flow

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Step 1: Start with: "What's your favorite British tradition or custom and why do you think it's important?"
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Step 2: Continue with: "What's the best thing about living in Britain and what makes you proud to be British?"
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Step 3: Finish with: "What's your favorite British holiday or celebration and how do you typically celebrate it?"

The Personal Experiences Sequence

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Step 1: Begin with: "What's the most British thing you've ever done or said?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "What's the most British thing you've ever heard someone say?"
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Step 3: End with: "What's the most British way you've ever handled a difficult situation?"

Further Reading

"Watching the English" by Kate Fox
"The English: A Portrait of a People" by Jeremy Paxman
"Notes from a Small Island" by Bill Bryson

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