20 Questions

Questions to Ask a New Daycare

Essential questions to evaluate daycare quality, safety, and fit for your child's development and your family's needs.

1

What is your staff-to-child ratio and how do you maintain it throughout the day?

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Why this works

Ensures adequate supervision and individual attention for each child, which is crucial for safety and development.

2

What are the qualifications and training requirements for your teachers and caregivers?

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Why this works

Reveals the educational background and ongoing training of staff who will be caring for your child.

3

How do you handle discipline and what is your approach to behavioral guidance?

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Why this works

Shows their philosophy on child discipline and whether it aligns with your parenting values and approach.

4

What is your policy on sick children and how do you prevent illness spread?

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Why this works

Protects your child's health and shows their commitment to maintaining a healthy environment for all children.

5

How do you communicate with parents about their child's daily activities and progress?

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Why this works

Ensures you'll stay informed about your child's day and development through regular, meaningful communication.

6

What is your approach to nap time and how do you handle different sleep schedules?

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Why this works

Shows flexibility in accommodating individual children's needs and whether they respect your child's sleep requirements.

7

How do you handle food allergies and dietary restrictions?

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Why this works

Ensures your child's safety if they have allergies and shows their ability to accommodate special dietary needs.

8

What is your policy on screen time and technology use?

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Why this works

Reveals their approach to technology and whether it aligns with your preferences for your child's development.

9

How do you handle potty training and what support do you provide?

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Why this works

Shows their approach to this important developmental milestone and whether they'll work with your family's timeline.

10

What is your outdoor play policy and how much time do children spend outside?

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Why this works

Ensures your child gets adequate physical activity and outdoor time, which is important for development and health.

11

How do you handle separation anxiety and help children adjust to daycare?

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Why this works

Shows their understanding of this common challenge and their strategies for helping children feel secure.

12

What is your approach to learning and what curriculum or activities do you offer?

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Why this works

Reveals their educational philosophy and whether their approach supports your child's learning and development goals.

13

How do you handle emergencies and what is your evacuation plan?

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Why this works

Ensures your child's safety in emergency situations and shows their preparedness for various scenarios.

14

What is your policy on visitors and how do you ensure security?

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Why this works

Protects your child's safety by showing their approach to facility security and visitor management.

15

How do you handle special needs or developmental delays?

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Why this works

Shows their ability to accommodate children with different needs and whether they have appropriate resources and training.

16

What is your policy on late pickups and how do you handle schedule changes?

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Why this works

Reveals their flexibility and policies for working parents who may need schedule accommodations.

17

How do you handle conflicts between children and what is your approach to social development?

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Why this works

Shows their approach to teaching social skills and resolving conflicts, which is important for your child's social development.

18

What is your approach to cultural diversity and how do you celebrate different backgrounds?

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Shows their commitment to inclusivity and whether they'll help your child feel valued for their unique background.

19

How do you handle transitions between age groups and what is your approach to age-appropriate activities?

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Why this works

Shows their understanding of child development and how they adapt activities to each child's developmental stage.

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What is your policy on parent involvement and how can families participate in the program?

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Why this works

Reveals opportunities for you to be involved in your child's daycare experience and stay connected to their daily life.

Best Practices for Daycare Evaluation

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Visit During Active Hours

Schedule visits during normal operating hours to observe how staff interact with children and manage daily activities.

Ask for Specific Examples

Request concrete examples of how they handle common situations rather than accepting general policy statements.

Observe Staff Interactions

Watch how teachers interact with children to assess their warmth, patience, and engagement with the kids.

Question Sequences

The Safety and Security Sequence

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What is your staff-to-child ratio?
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How do you handle emergencies?
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What is your security policy?
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How do you prevent illness spread?

The Development and Learning Sequence

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What is your approach to learning?
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How do you handle different developmental stages?
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What activities do you offer?
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How do you support social development?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Focus Only on Cost

While budget is important, prioritize quality of care and your child's safety and development over finding the cheapest option.

Avoid Rushing the Decision

Take time to visit multiple centers, ask questions, and observe before making a decision that affects your child's daily experience.

Don't Ignore Your Instincts

Pay attention to how you feel about the environment and staff. Your intuition about the fit is often accurate.

Evaluation Templates

The Comprehensive Visit

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Step 1: Schedule a tour during active hours
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Step 2: Observe staff-child interactions
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Step 3: Ask about policies and procedures
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Step 4: Discuss your child's specific needs

The Follow-Up Assessment

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Step 1: Check references from other parents
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Step 2: Verify licensing and accreditation
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Step 3: Review policies in writing
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Step 4: Discuss transition and start date

Further Reading

"The Daycare Decision" by Lisa Guernsey
"Choosing Child Care" by Stevanne Auerbach
"The Working Parent's Guide to Child Care" by Diane Trister Dodge
"Quality Child Care" by Ellen Galinsky

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