20 Questions

Questions to Ask a New School as a Parent

Essential questions to evaluate a school's fit for your child, understand policies, and ensure your family's needs will be met in the educational environment.

1

What is the school's approach to supporting students with different learning styles?

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Crucial for understanding how the school accommodates diverse learners and ensures your child will receive appropriate support regardless of their learning needs.

2

How does the school communicate with parents about student progress and concerns?

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Essential for staying informed about your child's academic and social development, and understanding how you'll be involved in their education.

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What is the school's policy on homework, and how much can parents expect?

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Helps you understand the school's academic expectations and plan for your family's schedule, ensuring the workload is appropriate for your child's age and needs.

4

How does the school handle bullying and peer conflicts?

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Critical for understanding the school's commitment to student safety and social-emotional well-being, ensuring your child will be protected and supported.

5

What extracurricular activities and programs are available for students?

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Reveals opportunities for your child's holistic development and helps you understand what activities might interest or benefit your child.

6

How does the school support students who are struggling academically or socially?

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Shows the school's commitment to all students' success and reveals what resources are available if your child needs additional support.

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What is the school's approach to discipline and behavior management?

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Helps you understand the school's values around respect and responsibility, and ensures the disciplinary approach aligns with your family's values.

8

How diverse is the student body and faculty, and how does the school promote inclusion?

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Important for understanding the school's commitment to diversity and ensuring your child will learn in an inclusive environment that values all backgrounds.

9

What technology and resources are available to students, and how are they used?

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Reveals the school's investment in modern education and helps you understand how technology will support your child's learning.

10

How does the school handle parent involvement and what opportunities exist for volunteering?

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Shows how welcome parents are in the school community and reveals ways you can contribute to your child's education and the school environment.

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What is the school's approach to standardized testing and academic pressure?

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Helps you understand the school's balance between academic rigor and student well-being, ensuring the approach aligns with your educational values.

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How does the school support students' social and emotional development?

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Shows whether the school addresses the whole child, not just academics, and reveals what support is available for your child's mental health and social skills.

13

What safety measures and security protocols are in place?

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Essential for peace of mind, this reveals how the school protects students and creates a secure learning environment for your child.

14

How does the school handle special dietary needs, allergies, and health concerns?

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Critical for ensuring your child's health and safety needs will be met, especially if they have specific dietary requirements or medical conditions.

15

What is the school's policy on field trips and experiential learning opportunities?

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Reveals the school's commitment to hands-on learning and helps you understand what enriching experiences your child will have beyond the classroom.

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How does the school prepare students for transitions, such as moving to the next grade level?

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Shows the school's support for student transitions and helps you understand how your child will be prepared for academic and social changes.

17

What support is available for students who are advanced learners or need enrichment?

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Important for ensuring your child will be appropriately challenged and supported if they are ahead of their peers academically.

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How does the school handle parent-teacher conferences and ongoing communication?

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Reveals the school's approach to parent-teacher partnerships and helps you understand how you'll stay informed about your child's progress.

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What is the school's approach to handling student mistakes and learning from failures?

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Shows the school's philosophy on learning and growth, ensuring your child will be supported in developing resilience and learning from challenges.

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How does the school celebrate student achievements and foster a positive learning environment?

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Reveals the school's culture around recognition and motivation, helping you understand how your child's successes will be acknowledged and encouraged.

How to Evaluate Schools as a Parent

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Visit During School Hours

Schedule visits during regular school hours to observe classroom dynamics, student interactions, and the overall learning atmosphere firsthand.

Talk to Current Parents

Connect with parents whose children currently attend the school to get honest insights about their experiences and any concerns they may have.

Bring Your Child

Include your child in the school visit to see how they respond to the environment and whether they feel comfortable and excited about the school.

Question Sequences

The Academic Support Series

1
How do you support different learning styles?
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What help is available for struggling students?
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How do you challenge advanced learners?
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What is your approach to homework and academic pressure?

The Safety and Well-being Series

1
How do you handle bullying and conflicts?
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What safety measures are in place?
3
How do you support social-emotional development?
4
What is your approach to discipline and behavior?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Focus Only on Test Scores

While academic performance matters, also consider the school's approach to social-emotional learning, creativity, and character development.

Don't Ignore Your Gut Feeling

Pay attention to how you and your child feel during the visit. A school might look good on paper but feel wrong when you're actually there.

Don't Skip the Student Perspective

Make sure to talk to current students about their experiences. They often provide the most honest insights about daily life at the school.

Evaluation Templates

The Comprehensive School Visit

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Step 1: Schedule a formal tour with an administrator
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Step 2: Observe at least one classroom in action
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Step 3: Meet with a teacher in your child's grade level
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Step 4: Talk to 2-3 current students
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Step 5: Speak with other parents if possible

The Parent-School Partnership Assessment

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Step 1: Ask about communication methods and frequency
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Step 2: Inquire about parent involvement opportunities
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Step 3: Discuss how concerns and issues are handled
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Step 4: Learn about parent-teacher conference schedules
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Step 5: Understand the school's approach to parent feedback

Further Reading

"The School Choice Roadmap" by Andrew Campanella
"Choosing the Right School for Your Child" by Maria Montessori
National Association of Elementary School Principals resources
GreatSchools.org school comparison tools

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