20 Questions

Questions to Ask About a Story

Engaging questions to ask about stories, books, movies, or personal narratives to deepen understanding, spark discussion, and explore themes and meaning.

1

What was your favorite part of the story, and why did it resonate with you?

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Why this works

Opens up conversation about what they found most engaging and helps you understand their interests and values.

2

Who was your favorite character, and what made them compelling to you?

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Why this works

Encourages them to analyze character development and helps you understand what qualities they admire or find interesting.

3

What themes or messages did you take away from the story?

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Why this works

Helps you understand what they learned from the story and what ideas or values they found meaningful.

4

How did the story make you feel, and what emotions did it evoke?

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Why this works

Encourages them to reflect on their emotional response and helps you understand how the story affected them.

5

What questions did the story raise for you, or what did it make you think about?

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Why this works

Encourages deeper reflection and helps you understand what ideas or questions the story sparked for them.

6

How did the story relate to your own life experiences or situations?

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Why this works

Helps you understand how they connect the story to their own life and what personal meaning they found in it.

7

What did you think about the ending, and did it satisfy you?

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Why this works

Encourages them to evaluate the story's conclusion and helps you understand their expectations and preferences.

8

What would you have done differently if you were the author or director?

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Why this works

Encourages creative thinking and helps you understand their perspective on storytelling and narrative choices.

9

What was the most surprising or unexpected part of the story?

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Why this works

Encourages them to reflect on plot twists and surprises, and helps you understand what they find surprising or engaging.

10

How did the story challenge or change your perspective on something?

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Why this works

Encourages them to reflect on how the story influenced their thinking and helps you understand its impact on them.

11

What did you think about the writing style or storytelling techniques used?

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Why this works

Encourages them to analyze the craft of storytelling and helps you understand their appreciation for different narrative techniques.

12

What was the most memorable or impactful scene for you?

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Why this works

Encourages them to identify specific moments that stood out and helps you understand what scenes or moments they found most powerful.

13

How did the story compare to other similar stories you've experienced?

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Why this works

Encourages them to make connections between different stories and helps you understand their broader reading or viewing experience.

14

What did you think about the pacing and structure of the story?

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Why this works

Encourages them to analyze the story's construction and helps you understand their preferences for narrative structure.

15

What questions do you still have about the story or its characters?

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Why this works

Encourages them to identify unresolved questions and helps you understand what aspects of the story they found most intriguing.

16

How did the story handle difficult or sensitive topics?

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Why this works

Encourages them to reflect on how the story addressed challenging subjects and helps you understand their perspective on these issues.

17

What did you think about the dialogue and how the characters spoke?

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Why this works

Encourages them to analyze the story's dialogue and helps you understand their appreciation for different writing styles.

18

How did the story use symbolism or metaphor to convey meaning?

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Why this works

Encourages them to analyze the story's deeper meaning and helps you understand their appreciation for literary techniques.

19

What did you think about the story's setting and how it influenced the narrative?

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Why this works

Encourages them to analyze the story's setting and helps you understand how they view the relationship between setting and story.

20

What would you recommend to someone who enjoyed this story?

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Why this works

Encourages them to think about similar stories and helps you understand their taste and what they might recommend to others.

Discussing Stories Effectively

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Be Engaging

Show Genuine Interest

Ask questions that show you're genuinely interested in their thoughts and opinions about the story.

Listen Actively

Pay attention to their responses and ask follow-up questions that show you're engaged and interested.

Be Open-Minded

Be open to different interpretations and perspectives, even if they differ from your own.

Ask Thoughtfully

Ask Open-Ended Questions

Ask questions that encourage detailed responses and allow for meaningful discussion.

Be Specific

Ask specific questions that will give you meaningful insights into their thoughts and feelings about the story.

Encourage Reflection

Ask questions that encourage them to reflect on the story's meaning and impact.

Build Connection

Share Your Own Thoughts

When appropriate, share your own thoughts and opinions about the story to create mutual understanding.

Find Common Ground

Look for shared interests, experiences, or values that can strengthen your connection.

Be Supportive

Respond to their answers with empathy and support, especially when they share personal or vulnerable information.

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