20 Questions

Questions to Ask About Faith

Respectful interfaith prompts that invite reflection on belief, practice, doubt, and how faith shapes daily life and community.

1

What does faith mean to you in ordinary, weekday life?

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Why this works

Focuses on lived practice beyond doctrine.

2

Which story, teaching, or verse guides you most—and why?

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Why this works

Reveals personal anchors that shape values.

3

How has your faith changed over time?

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Why this works

Normalizes growth, wrestling, and renewal.

4

What practices help you feel most connected?

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Why this works

Highlights rituals that sustain belonging and peace.

5

How do you sit with doubt or unanswered questions?

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Why this works

Invites vulnerability and philosophical humility.

6

What does service or justice look like in your tradition?

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Why this works

Connects belief to action in the world.

7

How do holidays or seasons shape your year?

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Why this works

Explores sacred time and communal rhythms.

8

Who has modeled faith for you?

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Why this works

Personalizes influence and mentorship.

9

How do you integrate science, reason, and faith?

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Why this works

Opens respectful dialogue across domains.

10

What gives you hope right now?

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Why this works

Centers resilience and meaning in hard times.

11

What’s misunderstood about your tradition?

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Why this works

Counters stereotypes with lived experience.

12

How do you discern big decisions?

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Why this works

Surfaces frameworks for guidance and peace.

13

What role does community play for you?

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Why this works

Explores belonging, accountability, and care.

14

How do you teach faith to children or newcomers?

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Why this works

Reveals pedagogy and hospitality.

15

What practices help during grief or uncertainty?

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Why this works

Maps comfort and ritual in hard seasons.

16

What tensions do you hold within your tradition?

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Why this works

Honors complexity without debate.

17

How do you relate to other faiths or none?

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Why this works

Invites pluralism and mutual respect.

18

What’s one small daily practice that anchors you?

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Why this works

Elevates micro-habits that build a life.

19

What does forgiveness look like for you?

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Why this works

Explores reconciliation and growth.

20

What question about faith are you living into?

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Why this works

Ends with open curiosity rather than certainty.

Faith Conversations With Care

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Curiosity, Consent, Compassion

Ask Permission

Check comfort before going deep; let people pass.

Invite Stories

Lived experience lands better than debate.

Honor Differences

Aim for understanding, not conversion.

Gentle Flow

Arc

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Meaning in daily life
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Practices that sustain
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Hopes for the future

Common Pitfalls

Debate Traps

Avoid gotcha questions—seek to learn.

Assumptions

Don’t presume doctrine or background; ask gently.

Respectful Starter

One-Minute Setup

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Step 1: Ask if now’s a good time
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Step 2: Share your intent
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Step 3: Invite them to skip any question

Further Reading

Interfaith dialog guides
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