20 Questions

Questions to Ask About Palliative Care

Compassionate and important questions that help you understand palliative care options, make informed decisions about end-of-life care, and ensure your loved one receives the best possible comfort and support.

1

What is palliative care and how does it differ from hospice care?

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Why this works

Establishes a clear understanding of palliative care services and helps you understand the different types of care available for serious illness management.

2

What services are included in palliative care and how are they provided?

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Why this works

Reveals the comprehensive nature of palliative care and helps you understand what support and services are available for both the patient and family.

3

Who is eligible for palliative care and what are the requirements?

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Shows the accessibility of palliative care and helps you understand if your loved one qualifies for these important services.

4

How do you assess pain and symptom management needs?

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Why this works

Reveals their approach to comfort care and shows how they evaluate and address the physical symptoms and pain that come with serious illness.

5

What support is available for family members and caregivers?

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Why this works

Shows their understanding that palliative care extends beyond the patient and reveals what emotional and practical support is available for families.

6

How do you handle different types of medical decisions and advance care planning?

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Why this works

Reveals their approach to helping families make difficult decisions and shows how they support advance care planning and medical decision-making.

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What's your approach to emotional and spiritual support for patients and families?

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Why this works

Shows their holistic approach to care and reveals how they address the emotional and spiritual needs that come with serious illness.

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How do you coordinate care with other healthcare providers and specialists?

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Why this works

Reveals their approach to care coordination and shows how they work with the patient's existing medical team to provide comprehensive care.

9

What resources are available for financial planning and insurance coverage?

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Why this works

Shows their understanding of the practical aspects of care and reveals what support is available for navigating insurance and financial concerns.

10

How do you handle different types of communication with patients and families?

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Why this works

Reveals their communication approach and shows how they ensure families are informed and involved in care decisions.

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What's your approach to managing different types of symptoms and side effects?

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Why this works

Shows their expertise in symptom management and reveals how they address the various physical challenges that come with serious illness.

12

How do you support patients and families through different stages of illness?

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Reveals their approach to ongoing support and shows how they adapt care as the patient's condition changes over time.

13

What's your approach to end-of-life care and comfort measures?

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Shows their expertise in end-of-life care and reveals how they ensure comfort and dignity during the final stages of life.

14

How do you handle different types of cultural and religious considerations?

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Why this works

Shows their cultural sensitivity and reveals how they respect and incorporate different cultural and religious beliefs into care.

15

What support is available for children and family members of different ages?

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Reveals their understanding of family dynamics and shows what age-appropriate support is available for different family members.

16

How do you approach different types of medical equipment and home care needs?

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Why this works

Shows their practical approach to care and reveals how they help families manage the equipment and home care needs that come with serious illness.

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What's your approach to managing different types of medications and treatments?

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Why this works

Reveals their medication management expertise and shows how they coordinate complex medication regimens for optimal comfort and safety.

18

How do you support families through the grieving process and bereavement?

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Why this works

Shows their comprehensive approach to care and reveals what ongoing support is available for families after the loss of a loved one.

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What resources are available for legal and estate planning considerations?

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Why this works

Reveals their understanding of the broader needs of families and shows what support is available for legal and estate planning during this difficult time.

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How do you measure the success of palliative care and what outcomes do you focus on?

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Why this works

Shows their approach to quality care and reveals how they define success in terms of patient comfort, family support, and quality of life.

Best Practices for Palliative Care Conversations

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Approach with Compassion and Sensitivity

Palliative care conversations are deeply personal and emotional. Approach with empathy, patience, and understanding, recognizing that families are going through a difficult time.

Focus on Both Patient and Family Needs

Palliative care is about supporting both the patient and their family. Ask questions that address the needs of everyone involved in the care journey.

Ask About Practical and Emotional Support

Balance questions about medical care with questions about emotional support, practical assistance, and resources for families during this challenging time.

Question Sequences

The Understanding and Services Sequence

1
What is palliative care and how does it differ from hospice care?
2
What services are included in palliative care and how are they provided?
3
Who is eligible for palliative care and what are the requirements?

The Support and Care Flow

1
What support is available for family members and caregivers?
2
What's your approach to emotional and spiritual support for patients and families?
3
How do you support families through the grieving process and bereavement?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Rush the Conversation

These are deeply personal and emotional topics. Take time to listen and allow for pauses and emotional responses. Don't rush through the questions.

Avoid Overly Medical Questions

While medical knowledge is important, focus on questions that help you understand the care approach and support available rather than getting into complex medical details.

Don't Ignore the Emotional Aspects

Palliative care is about comfort and quality of life. Make sure to ask about emotional support, spiritual care, and family support, not just medical care.

Conversation Templates

The Understanding and Services Flow

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Step 1: Start with: "What is palliative care and how does it differ from hospice care?"
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Step 2: Continue with: "What services are included in palliative care and how are they provided?"
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Step 3: Finish with: "Who is eligible for palliative care and what are the requirements?"

The Support and Care Sequence

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Step 1: Begin with: "What support is available for family members and caregivers?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "What's your approach to emotional and spiritual support for patients and families?"
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Step 3: End with: "How do you support families through the grieving process and bereavement?"

Further Reading

"Being Mortal" by Atul Gawande
"The Conversation" by Angelo Volandes
"Dying Well" by Ira Byock

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