20 Questions

Questions to Ask About Video Games

Engaging questions to ask about video games that reveal gaming preferences, create fun conversations, and help you understand someone's gaming interests and experiences.

1

What's the first video game you ever played, and what do you remember about that experience?

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Why this works

Reveals their gaming origins while bringing up nostalgic memories and showing how their gaming journey began.

2

What's your all-time favorite game, and what makes it special to you?

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Why this works

Shows their gaming preferences while revealing what they value most in games and what experiences they cherish.

3

What type of games do you enjoy most - action, strategy, puzzle, RPG, or something else?

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Why this works

Reveals their gaming preferences while showing what genres and gameplay styles they're drawn to.

4

What's the most challenging game you've ever played, and how did you overcome the difficulty?

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Why this works

Shows their gaming skills while revealing how they approach challenges and what they consider difficult.

5

Do you prefer single-player or multiplayer games, and what do you enjoy about each?

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Why this works

Reveals their social gaming preferences while showing whether they prefer solo experiences or social gaming.

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What's a game that everyone seems to love but you just don't get, and why?

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Why this works

Shows their unique gaming perspective while revealing what they don't enjoy and why they have different tastes.

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What's the funniest or most memorable moment you've had while gaming?

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Why this works

Brings up entertaining stories while revealing their gaming experiences and what they find memorable or amusing.

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What's a game you've spent the most time playing, and what kept you coming back to it?

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Why this works

Shows their gaming dedication while revealing what elements keep them engaged and coming back for more.

9

What's a game that taught you something or changed your perspective on something?

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Why this works

Reveals the impact of gaming while showing how games can be educational or transformative experiences.

10

What's your favorite gaming memory with friends or family?

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Shows the social aspect of gaming while revealing their favorite shared gaming experiences.

11

What's a game you're really good at, and what tips would you give to someone just starting?

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Why this works

Reveals their gaming expertise while showing their willingness to help others and share their knowledge.

12

What's a game you've always wanted to play but haven't had the chance to yet?

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Shows their gaming interests while revealing what games they're curious about or want to experience.

13

What's the most beautiful or visually stunning game you've ever played?

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Reveals their appreciation for game art while showing what visual elements they find most appealing.

14

What's a game that made you emotional or really affected you?

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Why this works

Shows the emotional impact of gaming while revealing what stories or experiences resonate with them.

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What's your favorite gaming platform - PC, console, mobile, or something else?

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Why this works

Reveals their gaming setup preferences while showing what platforms they prefer and why.

16

What's a game you think everyone should play at least once, and why?

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Shows their gaming recommendations while revealing what they consider essential gaming experiences.

17

What's the most creative or innovative game you've ever played?

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Why this works

Reveals their appreciation for game design while showing what they consider creative or innovative in gaming.

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What's a game you've played with someone else that created a great bonding experience?

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Shows the social aspect of gaming while revealing how games can bring people together and create connections.

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What's a game that surprised you - either by being better than expected or different from what you thought?

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Why this works

Reveals their gaming experiences while showing what games exceeded their expectations or surprised them.

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What's your dream game - if you could create any game you wanted, what would it be like?

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Why this works

Shows their creativity and gaming vision while revealing what elements they would combine to create their ideal game.

Mastering Gaming Conversations

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Show Genuine Interest

Ask follow-up questions about their gaming experiences and show enthusiasm for their gaming stories and preferences.

Share Your Own Gaming Experiences

Reciprocate by sharing your own gaming memories, favorites, and experiences to create mutual engagement.

Be Open to Different Gaming Preferences

Respect their gaming choices and preferences, even if they differ from your own gaming interests.

Question Sequences

The Gaming Journey

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What's the first game you ever played?
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What's your all-time favorite game?
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What type of games do you enjoy most?
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What's the most challenging game you've played?

The Experience Explorer

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What's the funniest moment you've had gaming?
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What's a game that taught you something?
3
What's your favorite gaming memory with friends?
4
What's a game that made you emotional?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Judge Their Gaming Choices

Avoid expressing judgment about their game preferences, platforms, or gaming habits. Respect their gaming choices.

Don't Make It a Competition

Focus on sharing experiences rather than comparing skills or achievements. Keep the conversation collaborative.

Don't Assume Gaming Knowledge

Don't assume they know about specific games or gaming terminology. Be inclusive and explain when needed.

Conversation Templates

The Gaming Journey

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Step 1: Start with: "I'm curious about your gaming background..."
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Step 2: Follow with: "What's the first game you ever played?"
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Step 3: Deepen with: "What's your all-time favorite game?"
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Step 4: Connect with: "What type of games do you enjoy most?"

The Experience Explorer

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Step 1: Start with: "I'm interested in your gaming experiences..."
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Step 2: Follow with: "What's the funniest moment you've had gaming?"
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Step 3: Deepen with: "What's a game that taught you something?"
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Step 4: Connect with: "What's your favorite gaming memory with friends?"

Further Reading

"The Art of Game Design" by Jesse Schell
"Reality is Broken" by Jane McGonigal
"The Gaming Revolution" by Dr. James Paul Gee

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