20 Questions

Questions to Ask an Advisor

Strategic questions that help you maximize your relationship with your advisor, understand their expectations, and get the most from your academic or professional guidance.

1

What are your expectations for our working relationship?

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Why this works

Understanding their expectations helps you align your approach and ensure you're meeting their requirements for the advisor-advisee relationship.

2

How do you prefer to communicate and what's the best way to reach you?

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Why this works

Understanding their communication preferences helps you maintain effective contact and ensures you can reach them when needed.

3

What are your research interests and how do they align with my goals?

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Why this works

Understanding their research interests helps you assess whether your goals align with their expertise and whether you can benefit from their guidance.

4

What's your approach to mentoring and how do you support your advisees?

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Why this works

Learning about their mentoring approach helps you understand what support and guidance you can expect from them.

5

What are the key milestones and deadlines I should be aware of?

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Why this works

Understanding key milestones helps you plan your work and ensure you meet all requirements and deadlines.

6

How do you handle conflicts or disagreements with advisees?

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Why this works

Understanding their approach to conflicts helps you know how to address any issues that may arise in your working relationship.

7

What are your expectations for my academic or professional development?

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Why this works

Understanding their expectations helps you focus on the areas that are most important to them and your development.

8

How do you provide feedback and what's your approach to evaluation?

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Why this works

Understanding their feedback approach helps you know how to receive and respond to their guidance and evaluation.

9

What are the opportunities for collaboration and how do you work with other students?

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Why this works

Understanding collaboration opportunities helps you assess whether you can work with other students and benefit from group projects.

10

What's your approach to work-life balance and how do you support your advisees' well-being?

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Understanding their approach to work-life balance helps you assess whether they support your personal and professional well-being.

11

How do you handle different learning styles and what's your approach to teaching?

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Understanding their teaching approach helps you know how to work with them and what to expect from their guidance.

12

What are the opportunities for professional development and career guidance?

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Why this works

Understanding professional development opportunities helps you assess whether they can support your career goals and development.

13

How do you handle different levels of experience and what's your approach to skill development?

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Understanding their approach to skill development helps you know how they'll support your learning and growth.

14

What are your expectations for my contribution to your research or projects?

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Why this works

Understanding their expectations helps you know what you'll be expected to contribute and how you can add value to their work.

15

How do you handle different types of projects and what's your approach to project management?

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Understanding their project management approach helps you know how to work with them on different types of projects.

16

What are the opportunities for networking and professional relationships?

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Why this works

Understanding networking opportunities helps you assess whether they can help you build valuable professional relationships.

17

How do you handle different types of challenges and what's your approach to problem-solving?

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Why this works

Understanding their problem-solving approach helps you know how to work with them when challenges arise.

18

What are your expectations for my independence and how do you balance guidance with autonomy?

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Why this works

Understanding their approach to independence helps you know how much autonomy you'll have and when to seek guidance.

19

How do you handle different types of feedback and what's your approach to continuous improvement?

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Why this works

Understanding their feedback approach helps you know how to receive and respond to their guidance for continuous improvement.

20

What are the next steps in our working relationship and how can I best prepare?

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Why this works

Understanding the next steps helps you know what to expect and how to prepare for your ongoing working relationship.

Maximizing Your Advisor Relationship

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Be Proactive and Prepared

Come to meetings with specific questions and be prepared to discuss your progress, challenges, and goals. This shows you're serious about your development.

Communicate Regularly

Maintain regular communication with your advisor and keep them updated on your progress, challenges, and achievements.

Be Open to Feedback

Be receptive to feedback and guidance, even when it's challenging. Use their input to improve and grow in your field.

Question Sequences

The Working Relationship Sequence

1
What are your expectations for our working relationship?
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How do you prefer to communicate and what's the best way to reach you?
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What's your approach to mentoring and how do you support your advisees?

The Development and Growth Sequence

1
What are your expectations for my academic or professional development?
2
What are the opportunities for professional development and career guidance?
3
How do you handle different levels of experience and what's your approach to skill development?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Wait for Them to Initiate

Don't wait for your advisor to reach out to you. Be proactive in maintaining communication and seeking guidance.

Don't Ignore Their Feedback

Take their feedback seriously and use it to improve. Ignoring their guidance can damage your relationship and hinder your development.

Don't Skip Regular Check-ins

Maintain regular communication and check-ins. Don't let long periods go by without touching base with your advisor.

Conversation Templates

The Working Relationship Approach

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Step 1: Start with: "What are your expectations for our working relationship?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "How do you prefer to communicate and what's the best way to reach you?"
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Step 3: Conclude with: "What's your approach to mentoring and how do you support your advisees?"

The Development and Growth Approach

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Step 1: Begin with: "What are your expectations for my academic or professional development?"
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Step 2: Ask: "What are the opportunities for professional development and career guidance?"
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Step 3: End with: "How do you handle different levels of experience and what's your approach to skill development?"

Further Reading

"The Advisor's Guide" by academic advising resources
"Mentoring and Professional Development" by career development guides
"Academic Success Strategies" by academic success resources
Academic advising and mentoring guides
Professional development and career guidance resources

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