20 Questions

Questions to Ask at Preschool Tour

Important questions to ask during a preschool tour to evaluate safety, curriculum, staff qualifications, and whether it's the right fit for your child.

1

What is your teacher-to-student ratio?

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Why this works

Lower ratios mean more individualized attention and better supervision for your child.

2

What are the qualifications and training requirements for your teachers?

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Why this works

Ensures staff have proper education and credentials to provide quality early childhood education.

3

What is your curriculum and educational philosophy?

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Why this works

Reveals whether their approach aligns with your values—play-based, Montessori, academic-focused, etc.

4

How do you handle discipline and behavioral issues?

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Why this works

Shows their approach to guidance matches your parenting philosophy and keeps children safe.

5

What are your safety and security procedures?

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Why this works

Verifies who has access to the building, how children are supervised, and emergency protocols.

6

How do you communicate with parents about their child's day and progress?

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Why this works

Ensures you'll stay informed about your child's experiences, development, and any concerns.

7

What is your policy on sick children?

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Why this works

Clarifies when you need to keep your child home and how they handle illnesses to protect all children.

8

Are meals and snacks provided, and are they nutritious?

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Why this works

Shows whether they offer healthy food options or if you need to pack meals.

9

What is a typical daily schedule like?

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Why this works

Reveals the balance between structured activities, free play, outdoor time, and rest.

10

How do you support children with different learning needs or developmental delays?

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Why this works

Assesses their ability to accommodate and support children who need extra help.

11

What is your potty training policy?

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Why this works

Clarifies whether your child must be potty trained or if they assist with the process.

12

How much outdoor play time do children get each day?

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Why this works

Ensures children get adequate physical activity and time in nature.

13

What is your staff turnover rate?

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Why this works

High turnover can disrupt children's attachments and indicate poor working conditions.

14

Are you licensed and accredited? Can I see your most recent inspection report?

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Why this works

Verifies they meet state standards and have no serious safety or health violations.

15

What is your tuition, and are there additional fees?

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Why this works

Provides complete cost transparency including registration, supplies, field trips, and other charges.

16

Do you offer flexible scheduling or part-time options?

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Why this works

Determines if their schedule works with your family's needs.

17

How do you help children transition into your program?

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Why this works

Shows they have strategies to ease separation anxiety and help children adjust.

18

What is your policy on parent involvement and volunteering?

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Why this works

Reveals whether parents are welcomed into the classroom and how involved you can be.

19

How do you prepare children for kindergarten?

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Why this works

Ensures they're building academic, social, and emotional skills needed for the next step.

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Can you provide references from current parents?

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Why this works

Allows you to hear honest feedback from families already enrolled.

Best Practices for Preschool Tours

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Visit Multiple Schools

Tour at least three preschools to compare environments, philosophies, and teaching styles before deciding.

Observe During Regular Hours

Try to visit when children are present so you can see staff interactions, classroom dynamics, and facility in action.

Trust Your Gut

Pay attention to how the environment feels. Does it seem warm, organized, and child-focused?

Bring Your Child If Possible

Watch how your child responds to the space and whether staff engage warmly with them.

Question Sequences

The Safety and Quality Sequence

1
What is your teacher-to-student ratio?
2
What are the qualifications and training requirements for your teachers?
3
What are your safety and security procedures?
4
Are you licensed and accredited? Can I see your most recent inspection report?

The Educational Approach Sequence

1
What is your curriculum and educational philosophy?
2
What is a typical daily schedule like?
3
How do you prepare children for kindergarten?
4
How do you support children with different learning needs?

The Practical Logistics Sequence

1
What is your tuition, and are there additional fees?
2
Do you offer flexible scheduling or part-time options?
3
What is your policy on sick children?
4
Are meals and snacks provided?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Choose Based on Convenience Alone

A nearby location is nice, but safety, quality care, and educational approach matter more.

Don't Ignore Red Flags

If staff seem frazzled, facilities are dirty, or children seem unhappy, keep looking.

Don't Skip Reading the Handbook

Policies on discipline, sick days, and tuition are often detailed in writing. Read before enrolling.

Don't Assume All Preschools Are the Same

Educational philosophies vary widely. Make sure their approach aligns with your family values.

Tour Templates

The Initial Tour Framework

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Step 1: Start with: 'Can you tell me about your educational philosophy and approach?'
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Step 2: Follow with: 'What is your teacher-to-student ratio?'
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Step 3: Ask: 'What does a typical day look like for children?'
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Step 4: Close with: 'Can you provide references from current parents?'

The Safety Verification Framework

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Step 1: Start with: 'What are your safety and security procedures?'
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Step 2: Follow with: 'Are you licensed and accredited?'
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Step 3: Ask: 'How do you handle emergencies or accidents?'
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Step 4: Close with: 'Can I see your most recent inspection report?'

Further Reading

National Association for the Education of Young Children (NAEYC)
Your state's child care licensing agency website
"The Blessing of a Skinned Knee" by Wendy Mogel

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