20 Questions

Questions to Ask Babysitter

Essential questions to find the right babysitter for your family, ensuring your children are safe, happy, and well-cared for in your absence.

1

What is your experience with children of my child's age?

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Why this works

Ensures they have relevant experience with your child's developmental stage and specific needs.

2

What activities do you enjoy doing with children?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their approach to childcare and whether their activities align with your child's interests.

3

How do you handle discipline and behavioral issues?

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Why this works

Critical for ensuring their approach to discipline matches your parenting philosophy and values.

4

What would you do in an emergency situation?

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Why this works

Ensures they can handle emergencies calmly and know how to respond appropriately to various situations.

5

Are you comfortable with our house rules and routines?

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Why this works

Helps you understand if they can adapt to your family's specific rules and daily routines.

6

What is your availability and scheduling flexibility?

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Important for understanding if their schedule aligns with your childcare needs.

7

How do you handle meal times and dietary restrictions?

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Why this works

Ensures they can manage your child's nutritional needs and any specific dietary requirements.

8

What is your approach to screen time and technology use?

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Why this works

Helps you understand if their approach to technology aligns with your family's values and rules.

9

How do you handle bedtime routines and sleep schedules?

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Why this works

Important for maintaining your child's sleep schedule and ensuring they can manage bedtime effectively.

10

What would you do if my child gets upset or has a tantrum?

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Why this works

Shows their approach to emotional support and helps you understand how they handle difficult situations.

11

Are you comfortable with our pet(s) and any allergies?

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Why this works

Ensures they can safely manage your pets and any allergy considerations in your home.

12

How do you handle outdoor activities and safety?

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Why this works

Important for understanding their approach to outdoor play and safety measures.

13

What is your policy on having friends over while babysitting?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their boundaries and whether they'll be fully focused on your children.

14

How do you communicate with parents during the day/evening?

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Why this works

Ensures you'll receive appropriate updates and can reach them when needed.

15

What is your experience with special needs or medical conditions?

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Why this works

Important if your child has specific needs or medical conditions that require specialized care.

16

How do you handle homework and educational activities?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their approach to supporting your child's learning and academic needs.

17

What would you do if you were running late or couldn't make it?

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Why this works

Important for understanding their reliability and backup plans for unexpected situations.

18

How do you handle conflicts between siblings or multiple children?

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Why this works

Shows their approach to managing multiple children and resolving conflicts peacefully.

19

What is your rate and what does it include?

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Why this works

Helps you understand the cost and what services are covered in your arrangement.

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Do you have any questions about our family or expectations?

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Why this works

Gives them a chance to ask important questions and shows they're thinking about the role seriously.

Finding the Right Babysitter

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Evaluating Qualifications

Check References

Always ask for and contact references from previous families. Ask about reliability, interaction with children, and any concerns.

Verify Experience

Ask about specific experience with children your child's age, any special needs, and how long they've been babysitting.

Consider Certifications

Look for CPR/first aid certification, childcare training, or other relevant qualifications that show commitment to safety.

Ensuring a Good Fit

Parenting Philosophy

Discipline and behavior management approach
Screen time and technology policies
Educational and learning support
Safety and risk management

Practical Considerations

Availability and scheduling flexibility
Transportation and location
Rate and payment expectations
Communication preferences

Family Dynamics

Comfort with your family's routines
Experience with your child's age group
Ability to handle multiple children
Understanding of special needs

Conducting the Interview

Include Your Child

Have your child meet the potential babysitter to see how they interact and if there's a natural connection.

Ask Scenario Questions

Present specific situations (tantrums, emergencies, conflicts) to see how they would handle them.

Trust Your Instincts

Pay attention to how you feel about the person and how your child responds to them. Comfort and trust are essential.

Further Reading

"The Babysitter's Handbook" by Barbara Rowley
"Child Care That Works" by Rebecca Isbell
"The Complete Idiot's Guide to Child Safety" by Miriam B. Rauch

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