20 Questions

Questions to Ask Client in First Therapy Session

Essential intake questions for therapists to understand client needs, establish rapport, and create effective treatment plans during initial sessions.

1

What brings you to therapy today?

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Why this works

Opens space for client to share presenting problem in own words, reveals immediate concerns.

2

Have you been in therapy before? If so, what was that experience like?

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Why this works

Shows therapy history, previous approaches, and expectations based on past experiences.

3

What are you hoping to gain from our work together?

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Why this works

Clarifies goals, success criteria, and whether expectations are realistic and achievable.

4

Can you describe what's been happening that led you to seek help now?

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Why this works

Reveals precipitating events, current stressors, and why timing matters.

5

How would you describe your support system?

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Why this works

Indicates available resources, isolation level, and who's in their corner.

6

Are you currently taking any medications or receiving other treatment?

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Why this works

Shows medical context, medication effects, and coordination needs with other providers.

7

How have you been coping with what you're experiencing?

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Why this works

Reveals coping strategies, both healthy and maladaptive, and resilience resources.

8

Is there any history of mental health issues in your family?

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Why this works

Indicates genetic factors, family patterns, and generational trauma considerations.

9

Are you having thoughts of hurting yourself or anyone else?

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Why this works

Essential safety assessment, crisis intervention needs, and risk management.

10

What does a typical day look like for you?

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Why this works

Provides functional assessment, routine stability, and how symptoms affect daily life.

11

How are your sleep patterns? How about your appetite?

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Why this works

Reveals physical symptoms of mental health issues and basic self-care functioning.

12

What are your strengths? What do you do well?

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Why this works

Builds on positives, empowers client, and identifies resources for treatment.

13

Is there anything about your cultural background or identity I should understand?

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Why this works

Shows cultural humility, contextual factors, and ensures culturally competent care.

14

What has helped you in the past when you've faced difficulties?

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Why this works

Identifies proven coping strategies and resilience factors to build upon.

15

Are there any important relationships in your life you'd like to talk about?

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Why this works

Reveals interpersonal patterns, attachment issues, and relational context.

16

What would your life look like if therapy is successful?

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Why this works

Creates concrete vision for change, motivates progress, and measures outcomes.

17

Is there anything you're worried about regarding therapy?

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Why this works

Addresses fears, misconceptions, and barriers to engagement upfront.

18

How do you prefer to communicate and process information?

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Why this works

Tailors approach to learning style, communication preferences, and effectiveness.

19

Are there any topics you'd prefer not to discuss right now?

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Why this works

Respects boundaries, builds safety, and acknowledges client autonomy.

20

What questions do you have for me about therapy or how we'll work together?

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Why this works

Empowers client voice, clarifies process, and establishes collaborative partnership.

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