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03 · Professional & Academic

Questions to Ask Coaches in an Interview

Questions for an athlete or family interviewing a coach they might train with, covering session plans, expectations between sessions, injury judgment, fees and scheduling, and who the coach works best with.

20 questions · each with a note on why · conversation guide

The questions

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  1. How many athletes are you working with right now, and how many are around my level?

    Why ask it

    Capacity determines how much attention you get, and a coach whose roster is mostly beginners or mostly elite may not have a plan for the middle. The count also tells you whether the schedule they promise you is realistic.

  2. What would my first month with you look like, session by session?

    Why ask it

    A coach who has done this before can describe an assessment phase, then a first target. If the answer stays at the level of we will see how you move, there is no plan yet, only availability.

  3. Have you coached someone through the specific thing I am trying to fix?

    Why ask it

    Name the problem out loud, the throwing shoulder, the last two seconds of a race, the fear after a fall. What you want back is a comparable athlete and what the fix took in weeks, not a claim that they handle everything.

  4. How many hours a week do you expect from me between sessions?

    Why ask it

    The number is the real price of the coaching. Ask what happens when you cannot hit it, since a coach with no answer will simply be disappointed in you later.

  5. How do you decide when to change my technique and when to leave it alone?

    Why ask it

    Constant tinkering is a common failure in private coaching, and it costs a season. Listen for a threshold: a measurable inefficiency, a pain pattern, a competition result, rather than a preference for how it should look.

  6. How will we know in eight weeks whether this is working?

    Why ask it

    Setting the review date now protects you from drifting for a year. A useful answer names two or three markers you can both see, and admits which ones are slow to move.

  7. What do you do when an athlete stops improving for a few months?

    Why ask it

    Plateaus are normal and how a coach handles them separates the experienced from the enthusiastic. The good answers involve changing the stimulus or the training load, and sometimes advising rest, rather than adding sessions.

  8. What happens when I disagree with you about my training?

    Why ask it

    You are looking for evidence that disagreement is allowed. Coaches who describe a conversation, a trial period, or a compromise are safer than those who frame every objection as a lack of commitment.

  9. What is your position on training through pain?

    Why ask it

    This is a safety question, not a toughness question. Any coach who cannot distinguish soreness from pain, or who treats stopping as weakness, is a risk regardless of their record.

  10. Who do you send athletes to when the problem turns out to be medical?

    Why ask it

    A coach with real professional relationships names people: a physio, a doctor, a dietitian. Someone who handles nutrition, injury, and psychology entirely themselves is working beyond their training.

  11. How would you build my year around the competitions that matter to me?

    Why ask it

    Periodisation is the difference between coaching and running sessions. Ask which events they would have you skip, because a coach who wants you to peak for everything has no plan at all.

  12. How much of the coaching is in person, and how much is video or written programming?

    Why ask it

    Remote elements are fine, but they change what you are buying. Get the split, and ask how quickly video gets reviewed, since a two week turnaround makes feedback useless.

  13. What are your fees, what counts as a session, and what is your cancellation policy?

    Why ask it

    Ask whether programme writing, video review, and messaging are billed or included, since that is where quoted rates usually mislead. A clear written policy is also a sign of an organised practice.

  14. How far ahead do you schedule, and what happens to my sessions when you travel with other athletes?

    Why ask it

    Coaches with competing athletes disappear during competition season, often exactly when you need them. Ask who covers, and whether you are charged when they are away.

  15. Will you talk to my other coaches, my team coach, my strength coach?

    Why ask it

    Conflicting programmes cause injuries. A coach who wants to coordinate is protecting you; one who wants to be your only voice is protecting their position.

  16. How do you want my family involved, and what stays between the two of us?

    Why ask it

    For a young athlete this needs saying out loud early. A good answer describes what parents will be told, where they watch from, and what a young athlete is allowed to keep private, within safeguarding rules.

  17. What kind of athlete do you work best with, and who should look for someone else?

    Why ask it

    Coaches who can describe a poor fit have thought about their own limits. An answer of I can work with anyone usually means they have not, and you will find out which type you are.

  18. Can I speak with two athletes you coach now, and one who has moved on?

    Why ask it

    The one who left is the informative call. How a coach reacts to the request matters too, since discomfort about being checked tends to predict discomfort about being questioned.

  19. What does the end of us working together look like?

    Why ask it

    Coaching relationships should have an exit that is not a falling out. Ask about notice, handover of your training records, and whether they help you find the next coach when you outgrow them.

  20. What have you changed in how you coach over the past two years?

    Why ask it

    The answer shows whether they are still learning and where they think they were wrong. Coaches who cannot name a change are teaching what they were taught, whenever that was.

Choosing a coach to work with

Practical guidance for the conversation itself

Watch before you commit

Ask to observe a session with an athlete at a similar level, and pay a trial session rather than signing a block. What you are watching for is how the coach talks to an athlete who is doing it wrong, how much of the hour is instruction against standing around, and whether corrections are specific enough to act on. A coach who will not be observed is telling you something.

Sort out the practical terms first

  • Fee per session, and what is included beyond the session itself.
  • Cancellation windows on both sides, including when the coach cancels.
  • Who pays for facility hire, entry fees, and travel.
  • How programmes are delivered and how fast feedback comes back.
  • For a minor: safeguarding certification, insurance, and where sessions take place.

Warning signs

  • Any guarantee of a result, a time, a scholarship, or a selection. Nobody can promise these.
  • Pressure to drop your team coach, your other sport, or your physio.
  • Treating pain as a mindset problem.
  • Discouraging you from talking to other athletes they coach.
  • Fees that must be paid in large blocks up front with no refund terms.

How to judge the first two months

  • You can explain what you are working on and why, in your own words.
  • Sessions have a purpose you understood before you arrived.
  • Something measurable has moved, or you know why it has not.
  • You are not more anxious about the sport than when you started.