20 Questions

Questions to Ask a Daycare Provider

Essential questions to evaluate daycare providers, ensure your child's safety and development, and find the best care environment for your family's needs.

1

What is your staff-to-child ratio and how do you maintain it?

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Why this works

Staff ratios directly impact the quality of care your child receives. Lower ratios mean more individual attention and better supervision for each child.

2

What are the qualifications and training requirements for your staff?

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Why this works

Staff qualifications affect the quality of care and education. Understanding training requirements helps you assess the expertise of those caring for your child.

3

How do you handle discipline and what is your approach to behavior management?

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Why this works

Discipline approaches should align with your parenting values. Understanding their methods helps you ensure consistency between home and daycare.

4

What is your policy on sick children and how do you prevent illness spread?

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Why this works

Illness prevention is crucial for your child's health. Understanding their policies helps you know when to keep your child home and how they protect against illness.

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What are your safety procedures and emergency protocols?

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Why this works

Safety is the top priority for any parent. Understanding their procedures helps you assess their commitment to protecting your child from harm.

6

How do you communicate with parents about their child's day and progress?

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Why this works

Regular communication keeps you informed about your child's activities and development. Understanding their communication methods helps you stay connected to your child's experience.

7

What is your approach to learning and development activities?

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Why this works

Early childhood education is important for development. Understanding their educational approach helps you ensure your child receives appropriate learning opportunities.

8

How do you handle food allergies and dietary restrictions?

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Why this works

Food safety is critical for children with allergies. Understanding their procedures helps you ensure your child's dietary needs are met safely.

9

What are your hours of operation and what happens if I'm late picking up my child?

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Why this works

Scheduling flexibility is important for working parents. Understanding their policies helps you plan your schedule and know the consequences of being late.

10

How do you handle nap time and what is your sleep policy?

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Why this works

Sleep schedules are important for young children. Understanding their approach helps you ensure your child's rest needs are met appropriately.

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What is your policy on visitors and how do you ensure security?

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Why this works

Security measures protect your child from unauthorized access. Understanding their procedures helps you assess the safety of their environment.

12

How do you handle potty training and what support do you provide?

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Why this works

Potty training requires consistency between home and daycare. Understanding their approach helps you coordinate efforts and support your child's development.

13

What are your policies on screen time and technology use?

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Why this works

Screen time policies affect your child's development. Understanding their approach helps you ensure your values about technology use are supported.

14

How do you handle conflicts between children and teach social skills?

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Why this works

Social development is important for young children. Understanding their approach helps you ensure your child learns appropriate social behaviors.

15

What is your policy on outdoor play and physical activity?

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Why this works

Physical activity is important for children's health and development. Understanding their approach helps you ensure your child gets appropriate exercise and outdoor time.

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How do you handle special needs or developmental delays?

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Why this works

Every child develops at their own pace. Understanding their approach helps you ensure your child receives appropriate support and accommodations.

17

What are your policies on holidays and closures?

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Why this works

Closure schedules affect your childcare arrangements. Understanding their calendar helps you plan for alternative care when needed.

18

How do you handle transitions and help children adjust to new environments?

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Why this works

Transitions can be difficult for young children. Understanding their approach helps you support your child's adjustment to the daycare environment.

19

What is your policy on bringing items from home and personal belongings?

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Why this works

Personal items can provide comfort for children. Understanding their policies helps you know what your child can bring and how belongings are handled.

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How do you handle parent concerns and what is your complaint process?

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Why this works

Open communication is important for resolving issues. Understanding their process helps you know how to address concerns and ensure your child's needs are met.

Daycare Selection Guide

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Daycare Evaluation Best Practices

Visit During Active Hours

Schedule visits during normal operating hours when children are present. This allows you to observe staff interactions, activities, and the overall atmosphere.

Ask for References

Request references from current or former parents. Speaking with other families provides real-world insights into the daycare's strengths and weaknesses.

Observe Staff Interactions

Watch how staff interact with children during your visit. Positive, nurturing interactions indicate a caring environment that supports child development.

Question Sequences

The Safety and Security Series

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What are your safety procedures and emergency protocols?
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What is your policy on visitors and how do you ensure security?
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How do you handle food allergies and dietary restrictions?
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What are your policies on sick children and illness prevention?

The Development and Learning Series

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What is your approach to learning and development activities?
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How do you handle conflicts between children and teach social skills?
3
What is your policy on outdoor play and physical activity?
4
How do you handle special needs or developmental delays?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Skip the Safety Questions

Always ask about safety procedures, emergency protocols, and security measures. Your child's safety is the most important consideration in choosing daycare.

Avoid Focusing Only on Convenience

Don't choose daycare based solely on location or hours. Quality of care and alignment with your values are more important than convenience factors.

Don't Ignore Your Instincts

Pay attention to your gut feelings about the environment and staff. If something doesn't feel right, trust your instincts and continue your search.

Evaluation Templates

The Safety Assessment

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Step 1: Start with: "What are your safety procedures and emergency protocols?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "What is your policy on visitors and security?"
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Step 3: Investigate with: "How do you handle food allergies and dietary restrictions?"
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Step 4: Conclude with: "What are your policies on sick children?"

The Development Evaluation

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Step 1: Begin with: "What is your approach to learning and development?"
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Step 2: Explore with: "How do you handle conflicts between children?"
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Step 3: Investigate with: "What is your policy on outdoor play?"
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Step 4: Assess with: "How do you handle special needs?"

Further Reading

"The Daycare Decision" by Lisa Guernsey
"Choosing Childcare" by Penelope Leach
"The Working Mother's Guide to Life" by Linda Mason

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