20 Questions

Questions to Ask Doula

Essential questions to find the right doula for your birth experience and ensure you have the support you need during pregnancy, labor, and postpartum.

1

What is your training and certification background?

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Why this works

Ensures you're working with a qualified professional who has proper education and credentials.

2

How many births have you attended, and what types of births?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their experience level and whether they've worked with similar birth plans to yours.

3

What is your philosophy about birth and labor support?

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Why this works

Ensures your doula's approach aligns with your birth preferences and values.

4

What services do you provide during pregnancy, labor, and postpartum?

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Why this works

Helps you understand the full scope of support and what to expect at each stage.

5

How do you work with my partner and family during labor?

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Why this works

Ensures your support team will work well together and that your partner feels included.

6

What is your availability around my due date?

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Why this works

Confirms they can be available when you need them most.

7

How do you handle backup coverage if you're unavailable?

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Why this works

Ensures you'll have support even if your primary doula can't attend your birth.

8

What is your fee structure and what does it include?

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Why this works

Helps you understand the cost and what services are covered in your investment.

9

How do you support different birth preferences (natural, epidural, cesarean)?

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Why this works

Ensures they can adapt their support to your specific birth plan and preferences.

10

What comfort measures and techniques do you use during labor?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their toolkit and whether their methods align with your preferences.

11

How do you communicate with healthcare providers?

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Why this works

Ensures they can work effectively with your medical team while advocating for your wishes.

12

What postpartum support do you provide?

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Why this works

Helps you understand what help you'll receive after the birth, including breastfeeding support and recovery.

13

How do you handle emergency situations or complications?

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Why this works

Ensures they can provide appropriate support even in challenging circumstances.

14

What is your policy on photography or documentation during birth?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their approach to capturing your birth experience if desired.

15

How do you support different cultural or religious practices?

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Why this works

Ensures they can accommodate your cultural needs and traditions during birth.

16

What resources or referrals do you provide for pregnancy and parenting?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their network and additional support they can connect you with.

17

How do you handle conflicts or disagreements with medical staff?

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Why this works

Ensures they can advocate for you professionally while maintaining good relationships with your care team.

18

What is your experience with high-risk pregnancies or special circumstances?

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Why this works

Important if you have specific medical conditions or concerns that require specialized support.

19

How do you support the emotional and mental health aspects of birth?

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Why this works

Ensures they can provide emotional support and recognize signs of anxiety or depression.

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What makes you different from other doulas, and why should I choose you?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their unique approach and whether their personality and style fit your needs.

Finding the Right Doula for Your Birth

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Evaluating Doula Qualifications

Check Certifications

Look for certification from organizations like DONA International, CAPPA, or ICEA. These ensure standardized training and ongoing education.

Verify Experience

Ask about the number of births attended, types of births, and any specialized training for your specific needs or concerns.

Request References

Ask for contact information from previous clients who had similar birth preferences or circumstances to yours.

Ensuring a Good Fit

Philosophy Alignment

Birth approach and intervention preferences
Pain management philosophy
Medical intervention comfort level
Postpartum care approach

Communication Style

How they explain things and provide information
Advocacy style with medical staff
Partner and family inclusion approach
Conflict resolution methods

Availability and Logistics

Due date availability and backup coverage
Travel distance and response time
Fee structure and payment options
Contract terms and cancellation policies

Making the Most of Your Interview

Prepare Your Questions

Come with a list of questions that address your specific concerns, birth preferences, and what you need from a doula.

Share Your Birth Vision

Be clear about your birth preferences, fears, and what support you're looking for so they can assess fit.

Trust Your Instincts

Pay attention to how you feel during the interview. You need to feel comfortable and confident with your doula.

Further Reading

"The Doula Book" by Marshall Klaus
"The Birth Partner" by Penny Simkin
"Ina May's Guide to Childbirth" by Ina May Gaskin

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