Questions to Ask During Rush
Engaging questions that help you connect with potential new members during rush while learning about their interests, values, and what they're looking for in a fraternity or sorority experience.
1What are you most excited about in college and what are you hoping to get involved in?
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What are you most excited about in college and what are you hoping to get involved in?
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Why this works
Opens conversation on a positive note and reveals their interests, goals, and what they're looking for in their college experience.
2What kind of community are you looking for and what values are most important to you?
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What kind of community are you looking for and what values are most important to you?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their values and reveals what kind of community and relationships they're seeking in their college experience.
3What are your hobbies and interests outside of academics?
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What are your hobbies and interests outside of academics?
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Why this works
Reveals their personality and interests while showing what activities and pastimes they enjoy and are passionate about.
4What are you most passionate about and what drives you?
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What are you most passionate about and what drives you?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their motivations and reveals what they're passionate about and what drives them in life.
5What kind of leadership opportunities are you interested in?
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What kind of leadership opportunities are you interested in?
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Why this works
Demonstrates interest in their leadership potential and reveals what kind of leadership roles and opportunities they're seeking.
6What are your goals for the next four years and beyond?
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What are your goals for the next four years and beyond?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their future plans and reveals their goals, aspirations, and what they want to achieve in college and beyond.
7What kind of friendships and relationships are you looking for?
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What kind of friendships and relationships are you looking for?
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Why this works
Reveals their social preferences and shows what kind of friendships and relationships they value and are seeking.
8What are you most nervous or excited about in starting college?
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What are you most nervous or excited about in starting college?
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Why this works
Creates vulnerability and bonding while revealing their concerns, hopes, and what they're looking forward to in college.
9What kind of service and philanthropy opportunities interest you?
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What kind of service and philanthropy opportunities interest you?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their values and reveals what kind of service and philanthropy work they're interested in and passionate about.
10What are your favorite ways to have fun and what do you enjoy doing with friends?
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What are your favorite ways to have fun and what do you enjoy doing with friends?
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Why this works
Reveals their social preferences and shows what kind of activities and experiences they enjoy and find fun.
11What kind of academic support and study groups are you looking for?
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What kind of academic support and study groups are you looking for?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their academic goals and reveals what kind of academic support and study environment they're seeking.
12What are your favorite ways to give back to the community?
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What are your favorite ways to give back to the community?
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Why this works
Reveals their values and shows what kind of community service and giving back they're interested in and passionate about.
13What kind of networking and professional development opportunities interest you?
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What kind of networking and professional development opportunities interest you?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their career goals and reveals what kind of networking and professional development opportunities they're seeking.
14What are your favorite ways to stay active and healthy?
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What are your favorite ways to stay active and healthy?
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Why this works
Reveals their lifestyle preferences and shows what kind of physical activities and health practices they enjoy and value.
15What kind of cultural and diversity experiences are you interested in?
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What kind of cultural and diversity experiences are you interested in?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their values and reveals what kind of cultural and diversity experiences they're interested in and passionate about.
16What are your favorite ways to relax and unwind?
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What are your favorite ways to relax and unwind?
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Why this works
Reveals their lifestyle preferences and shows what kind of relaxation and self-care activities they enjoy and value.
17What kind of mentorship and guidance are you looking for?
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What kind of mentorship and guidance are you looking for?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their growth and reveals what kind of mentorship and guidance they're seeking in their college experience.
18What are your favorite ways to celebrate and have fun with friends?
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What are your favorite ways to celebrate and have fun with friends?
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Why this works
Reveals their social preferences and shows what kind of celebrations and fun activities they enjoy and value.
19What kind of study abroad and travel opportunities interest you?
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What kind of study abroad and travel opportunities interest you?
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Why this works
Shows interest in their global perspective and reveals what kind of study abroad and travel opportunities they're interested in.
20What are your favorite ways to make a difference and impact others?
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What are your favorite ways to make a difference and impact others?
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Why this works
Reveals their values and shows what kind of impact and difference-making they're interested in and passionate about.
Best Practices for Rush Conversations
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Best Practices
Show Genuine Interest in Their Goals and Values
Demonstrate authentic curiosity about their interests, goals, and values. Ask follow-up questions and show enthusiasm for their aspirations and passions.
Focus on Community and Relationships
Ask about their interest in community, friendships, and relationships. This shows you understand the importance of building meaningful connections.
Be Patient and Encouraging
Give them time to share their thoughts and experiences. Show genuine interest in their responses and ask follow-up questions.
Question Sequences
The Goals and Values Sequence
The Interests and Activities Sequence
Common Pitfalls
Don't Make Assumptions About Their Interests
Avoid questions that assume you know about their interests or experiences. Let them share what they're passionate about and what drives them.
Don't Focus Only on the Social Aspects
While social aspects are important, also ask about their academic goals, values, and what they want to achieve in college and beyond.
Don't Ignore Their Individual Goals
Ask about their personal goals and aspirations. Show interest in what they want to achieve and how they want to grow and develop.