20 Questions

Questions to Ask High School Seniors

Thoughtful questions to ask high school seniors to understand their experiences, goals, and perspectives as they transition to adulthood and prepare for their next steps.

1

What are you most excited about for your future and what are your biggest goals?

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Why this works

Shows interest in their aspirations and helps you understand what motivates and drives them as they plan their next steps.

2

What has been your favorite part of high school and what will you miss most?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their positive experiences and what they value about their high school years.

3

What challenges have you faced during high school and how have you overcome them?

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Why this works

Shows your interest in their resilience and helps you understand how they handle adversity and personal growth.

4

What are your plans after graduation and how did you decide on this path?

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Why this works

Demonstrates interest in their decision-making process and helps you understand their thought process for major life choices.

5

What advice would you give to incoming freshmen or younger students?

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Why this works

Shows respect for their experience and helps you understand what they've learned that could benefit others.

6

What teachers or mentors have had the biggest impact on you and why?

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Why this works

Helps you understand the people who have influenced them and what qualities they value in mentors.

7

What extracurricular activities or experiences have been most meaningful to you?

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Why this works

Shows interest in their interests and helps you understand what activities have shaped their character and skills.

8

How do you feel about leaving your hometown and what are your thoughts on change?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their relationship with their community and how they handle transitions and new experiences.

9

What are your biggest fears or concerns about the future?

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Why this works

Shows empathy and helps you understand their worries and how you might be able to offer support or encouragement.

10

What skills or knowledge do you wish you had learned in high school?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their perspective on education and what they feel prepared or unprepared for.

11

How do you stay motivated and what keeps you going when things get tough?

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Why this works

Shows interest in their resilience and helps you understand their coping strategies and sources of motivation.

12

What are your thoughts on the current state of the world and how do you see your role in it?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their worldview and sense of responsibility, showing respect for their perspective on global issues.

13

What friendships have been most important to you and how do you plan to maintain them?

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Why this works

Shows interest in their relationships and helps you understand how they value and maintain important connections.

14

What do you think you'll be doing in five or ten years?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their long-term vision and shows interest in their future aspirations and planning.

15

What has been your biggest accomplishment in high school and why does it matter to you?

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Why this works

Shows respect for their achievements and helps you understand what they value and are proud of.

16

How do you handle stress and what do you do to take care of yourself?

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Why this works

Shows concern for their well-being and helps you understand their self-care practices and stress management.

17

What are your thoughts on social media and technology, and how do you use them?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their relationship with technology and how they navigate the digital world.

18

What questions do you have about adulthood or the next phase of your life?

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Why this works

Shows your willingness to help and helps you understand what they're curious or uncertain about.

19

What legacy do you want to leave behind from your high school years?

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Why this works

Helps you understand their values and how they want to be remembered, showing respect for their impact.

20

How can I support you as you transition to this next phase of your life?

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Why this works

Shows your care and commitment to their success, and helps you understand how you can be most helpful.

Supporting High School Seniors Through Transition

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Active Listening and Engagement

Be Present

Give them your full attention and avoid distractions to show you value their thoughts and experiences.

Ask Follow-up Questions

Show genuine interest by asking follow-up questions that dig deeper into their responses.

Validate Their Feelings

Acknowledge their emotions and experiences as valid, even if you don't fully understand their perspective.

Avoid Judgment

Create a safe space for them to share honestly without fear of criticism or judgment.

Providing Meaningful Support

Offer Practical Help

Provide concrete assistance with applications, planning, or other practical needs they might have.

Share Your Experience

Offer relevant insights from your own experiences while respecting that their journey may be different.

Connect Them with Resources

Help them find mentors, opportunities, or resources that align with their goals and interests.

Celebrate Their Achievements

Acknowledge their accomplishments and milestones, both big and small, to show your pride in their progress.

Encouraging Personal Growth

Encourage Self-Reflection

Help them think about their experiences, values, and goals to build self-awareness and confidence.

Support Their Independence

Encourage them to make their own decisions while being available for guidance when needed.

Foster Resilience

Help them develop coping strategies and confidence in their ability to handle challenges and setbacks.

Maintain Connection

Stay connected and available as they navigate new experiences and challenges in their next phase of life.

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