Questions to Ask Kids About Dad
Thoughtful questions to ask children about their father to understand their relationship, memories, and feelings, while being sensitive to different family situations.
1What do you like most about your dad, and what makes him special to you?
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What do you like most about your dad, and what makes him special to you?
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Why this works
Opens up conversation about their positive feelings and helps you understand what they value most about their father.
2What are some of your favorite memories with your dad?
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What are some of your favorite memories with your dad?
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Why this works
Encourages them to share positive memories and helps you understand what experiences are most meaningful to them.
3What are some things you like to do with your dad?
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What are some things you like to do with your dad?
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Why this works
Helps you understand their shared activities and what they enjoy doing together.
4What are some things your dad is really good at?
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What are some things your dad is really good at?
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Why this works
Encourages them to think about their father's strengths and what they admire about him.
5What are some things your dad has taught you?
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What are some things your dad has taught you?
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Why this works
Helps you understand what lessons they've learned from their father and what knowledge he's passed on.
6What are some things you wish you could do with your dad?
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What are some things you wish you could do with your dad?
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Why this works
Opens up conversation about their hopes and dreams for their relationship with their father.
7What are some things your dad does that make you laugh?
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What are some things your dad does that make you laugh?
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Why this works
Encourages them to share fun and lighthearted moments, helping you understand their sense of humor and joy.
8What are some things your dad does that make you feel loved?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel loved?
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Why this works
Helps you understand how their father shows love and what makes them feel cared for.
9What are some things your dad does that make you feel proud?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel proud?
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Why this works
Encourages them to think about what they're proud of about their father and what they admire.
10What are some things your dad does that make you feel safe?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel safe?
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Why this works
Helps you understand how their father provides security and what makes them feel protected.
11What are some things your dad does that make you feel supported?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel supported?
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Why this works
Encourages them to think about how their father supports them and what makes them feel encouraged.
12What are some things your dad does that make you feel understood?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel understood?
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Why this works
Helps you understand how their father connects with them and what makes them feel heard.
13What are some things your dad does that make you feel respected?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel respected?
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Why this works
Encourages them to think about how their father shows respect and what makes them feel valued.
14What are some things your dad does that make you feel encouraged?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel encouraged?
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Why this works
Helps you understand how their father motivates them and what makes them feel inspired.
15What are some things your dad does that make you feel comforted?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel comforted?
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Why this works
Encourages them to think about how their father provides comfort and what makes them feel better.
16What are some things your dad does that make you feel excited?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel excited?
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Why this works
Helps you understand what activities or experiences with their father bring them joy and excitement.
17What are some things your dad does that make you feel curious?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel curious?
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Why this works
Encourages them to think about how their father sparks their curiosity and what makes them want to learn.
18What are some things your dad does that make you feel creative?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel creative?
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Why this works
Helps you understand how their father encourages creativity and what makes them feel inspired to create.
19What are some things your dad does that make you feel confident?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel confident?
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Why this works
Encourages them to think about how their father builds their confidence and what makes them feel capable.
20What are some things your dad does that make you feel happy?
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What are some things your dad does that make you feel happy?
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Why this works
Helps you understand what brings them joy in their relationship with their father and what makes them feel content.
Talking with Kids About Their Father
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Approach with Care
Be Sensitive
Be sensitive to different family situations and avoid making assumptions about their relationship.
Listen Actively
Pay attention to their responses and show genuine interest in their feelings and experiences.
Ask Thoughtful Questions
Ask questions that show genuine interest in understanding their relationship with their father.
Be Supportive
Show Empathy
Show empathy and understanding for their feelings, both positive and challenging.
Be Encouraging
Be encouraging and supportive, and avoid being critical or dismissive of their experiences.
Respect Boundaries
Respect their boundaries and avoid asking questions that are too personal or invasive.
Build Connection
Find Common Ground
Look for shared experiences or interests that can help build a connection and rapport.
Show Appreciation
Express appreciation for their willingness to share their feelings and experiences with you.
Be Supportive
Be supportive and encouraging, and avoid being critical or dismissive of their relationship with their father.