20 Questions

Questions to Ask People About Music

Connect with others through thoughtful questions about music that reveal their tastes, experiences, and passion while building meaningful relationships around shared musical interests.

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What's your favorite type of music and why do you enjoy it?

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Why this works

Opens up their musical preferences while revealing what they find most appealing and meaningful about their favorite genres.

2

What's the most memorable concert or musical experience you've ever had?

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Why this works

Reveals their musical journey while showing what kind of live music experiences they value and find most meaningful.

3

What's your approach to discovering new music and artists?

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Why this works

Shows their exploration style while revealing how they find new music and what sources they trust for recommendations.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical instruments and equipment?

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Demonstrates their technical interest while revealing their experience with musical instruments and equipment.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical genres and styles?

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Shows their musical versatility while revealing their openness to various genres and musical styles.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical communities and groups?

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Demonstrates their social connection while revealing how they engage with musical communities and groups.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical technology and platforms?

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Shows their tech-savviness while revealing how they use technology to discover, listen to, and share music.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical performances and events?

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Demonstrates their event interest while revealing what types of musical performances and events they enjoy.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical education and learning?

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Shows their learning interest while revealing how they approach musical education and skill development.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical creativity and expression?

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Demonstrates their creative interest while revealing how they approach musical creativity and self-expression.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical history and culture?

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Shows their cultural interest while revealing how they explore musical history and cultural connections.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical collaboration and performance?

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Demonstrates their collaborative interest while revealing how they work with others in musical contexts.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical feedback and criticism?

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Shows their openness while revealing how they receive and process feedback about music and musical preferences.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical goals and aspirations?

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Demonstrates their ambition while revealing their musical goals and aspirations.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical challenges and obstacles?

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Shows their resilience while revealing how they handle musical challenges and obstacles.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical inspiration and motivation?

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Demonstrates their inspiration while revealing what motivates and inspires them in their musical journey.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical traditions and heritage?

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Shows their cultural awareness while revealing how they connect with musical traditions and heritage.

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical innovation and experimentation?

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Demonstrates their innovation interest while revealing how they approach musical innovation and experimentation.

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What's the most important thing music has taught you?

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Focuses on learning outcomes while revealing what they consider most valuable from their musical experiences.

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What's your vision for music and how do you plan to continue exploring it?

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Why this works

Shows their future thinking while revealing their goals and plans for continuing their musical journey.

Connecting Through Music

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Show Genuine Interest

Ask questions that demonstrate you're genuinely interested in their musical tastes and experiences. This creates connection and shows you value their musical passion.

Respect Their Preferences

Recognize that musical tastes are deeply personal. Ask questions that show respect for their preferences and musical journey.

Focus on Their Experiences

Ask about their personal musical experiences, concerts, and discoveries. This reveals their unique perspective and creates meaningful conversation.

Question Sequences

The Taste Explorer

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What's your favorite type of music and why do you enjoy it?
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What's the most memorable concert or musical experience you've ever had?
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What's your approach to discovering new music and artists?

The Experience Focus

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What's your approach to working with different types of musical instruments and equipment?
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What's your approach to working with different types of musical genres and styles?
3
What's your approach to working with different types of musical communities and groups?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Make Assumptions About Their Taste

Don't assume you know their musical preferences or judge their taste. Ask questions that allow them to share their unique musical journey.

Avoid Generic Questions

Don't ask questions that don't reveal their specific musical experiences and preferences. Ask about their unique musical journey.

Don't Focus Only on Popular Music

Remember that musical taste is diverse. Ask about their broader musical interests and experiences.

Conversation Templates

The Taste Explorer

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Step 1: Start with: "What's your favorite type of music and why do you enjoy it?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "What's the most memorable concert or musical experience you've ever had?"
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Step 3: Deepen with: "What's your approach to discovering new music and artists?"

The Experience Focus

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Step 1: Begin with: "What's your approach to working with different types of musical instruments and equipment?"
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Step 2: Explore with: "What's your approach to working with different types of musical genres and styles?"
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Step 3: Connect with: "What's your approach to working with different types of musical communities and groups?"

Further Reading

"This Is Your Brain on Music" by Daniel Levitin
"The Music Instinct" by Philip Ball
"How Music Works" by David Byrne

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