Questions to Ask PNMs
Thoughtful questions to ask Potential New Members (PNMs) during sorority recruitment to get to know them, assess fit, and help them feel comfortable while learning about their interests and values.
1What are you most excited about in college, and what experiences are you hoping to have?
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What are you most excited about in college, and what experiences are you hoping to have?
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Why this works
This helps you understand their college goals and see if they align with what your sorority can offer.
2What activities or organizations were you involved in during high school, and what did you enjoy most about them?
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What activities or organizations were you involved in during high school, and what did you enjoy most about them?
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Why this works
Learning about their past involvement helps you understand their interests and how they might contribute to your chapter.
3What does sisterhood mean to you, and what kind of relationships are you looking for in college?
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What does sisterhood mean to you, and what kind of relationships are you looking for in college?
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Why this works
Understanding their view of sisterhood helps you assess if they align with your chapter's values and culture.
4How do you like to spend your free time, and what hobbies or interests do you have?
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How do you like to spend your free time, and what hobbies or interests do you have?
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Why this works
Learning about their interests helps you find common ground and see how they might fit into your chapter community.
5What are your academic goals, and how do you balance schoolwork with other activities?
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What are your academic goals, and how do you balance schoolwork with other activities?
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Why this works
Understanding their academic priorities helps you see if they'll be a good fit for your chapter's academic culture.
6What kind of leadership roles have you held, and what leadership opportunities interest you?
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What kind of leadership roles have you held, and what leadership opportunities interest you?
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Why this works
Learning about their leadership experience helps you understand their potential contributions to your chapter.
7How do you handle challenges or difficult situations, and what support systems do you rely on?
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How do you handle challenges or difficult situations, and what support systems do you rely on?
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Why this works
Understanding their coping strategies helps you assess if they'll be a supportive sister during difficult times.
8What are you looking for in a sorority, and what would make you feel most at home?
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What are you looking for in a sorority, and what would make you feel most at home?
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Why this works
Learning about their sorority goals helps you understand if your chapter can meet their needs and expectations.
9How do you like to give back to your community, and what service activities interest you?
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How do you like to give back to your community, and what service activities interest you?
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Why this works
Understanding their service interests helps you see if they align with your chapter's philanthropic focus.
10What questions do you have about our sorority, and what would you like to know about our chapter?
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What questions do you have about our sorority, and what would you like to know about our chapter?
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Why this works
This gives them a chance to ask their own questions and shows you're interested in their concerns and interests.
Effective PNM Conversations
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Conversation Strategies
Be Genuine
Be authentic and let your personality shine through to help PNMs feel comfortable and see the real you.
Listen Actively
Pay attention to their responses and ask follow-up questions to show genuine interest in what they're saying.
Share Your Story
Share your own experiences and what you love about your sorority to help them understand the benefits.