20 Questions

Questions to Ask PNMs During Recruitment

Strategic questions to assess potential new members during sorority recruitment, helping you identify the best fit for your chapter.

1

What drew you to consider joining a sorority?

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Why this works

Reveals their motivation and expectations, helping you understand if they align with your chapter's values and goals.

2

How do you handle balancing academics with extracurricular activities?

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Why this works

Shows their time management skills and commitment to academic excellence, which is crucial for sorority success.

3

What qualities do you value most in friendships?

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Why this works

Reveals their relationship values and helps assess if they'll contribute positively to sisterhood dynamics.

4

How do you contribute to a team or group setting?

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Why this works

Demonstrates their collaborative skills and willingness to be an active, supportive member of the chapter.

5

What are your goals for your college experience?

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Why this works

Shows their ambition and helps determine if sorority involvement aligns with their personal and academic objectives.

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How do you handle conflict or disagreements with others?

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Reveals their communication skills and maturity in handling difficult situations within a close-knit community.

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What leadership experiences have you had in high school?

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Why this works

Identifies potential leaders and those with experience in organizational roles that could benefit the chapter.

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How do you prioritize your commitments when you have multiple responsibilities?

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Why this works

Shows their decision-making process and ability to manage competing priorities effectively.

9

What does sisterhood mean to you?

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Why this works

Tests their understanding of sorority values and reveals their expectations for the sisterhood experience.

10

How do you stay organized and manage your time effectively?

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Demonstrates practical skills needed for balancing sorority obligations with academic and personal responsibilities.

11

What community service or volunteer work have you been involved in?

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Why this works

Shows their commitment to service and philanthropy, which are core values of most sororities.

12

How do you handle stress and maintain your mental health?

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Reveals their self-care strategies and emotional maturity, important for thriving in a demanding environment.

13

What are you looking for in a sorority experience?

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Helps assess if their expectations align with what your chapter can realistically provide.

14

How do you approach meeting new people and building relationships?

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Shows their social skills and ability to integrate into an existing community of sisters.

15

What role do you see yourself playing in a sorority?

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Reveals their self-awareness and understanding of how they might contribute to chapter life.

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How do you handle feedback and constructive criticism?

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Why this works

Shows their maturity and ability to grow from guidance, essential for personal development in sorority life.

17

What traditions or values are most important to you?

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Why this works

Helps determine if their personal values align with your chapter's principles and traditions.

18

How do you balance your personal life with group commitments?

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Why this works

Reveals their understanding of the time commitment required and their ability to maintain healthy boundaries.

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What would you do if you disagreed with a chapter decision?

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Why this works

Tests their conflict resolution skills and respect for democratic processes within the organization.

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How do you plan to contribute to our chapter's success?

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Why this works

Encourages them to think about their potential impact and shows their commitment to being an active member.

Best Practices for Sorority Recruitment

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Focus on Values Alignment

Look for PNMs whose personal values align with your chapter's principles and who demonstrate genuine interest in sisterhood.

Assess Leadership Potential

Identify those with leadership experience or potential who could contribute to chapter growth and development.

Evaluate Social Skills

Observe how they interact with current members and assess their ability to integrate into your existing sisterhood.

Interview Sequences

The Values Assessment

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What drew you to consider joining a sorority?
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What does sisterhood mean to you?
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What traditions or values are most important to you?
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How do you plan to contribute to our chapter's success?

The Leadership Evaluation

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What leadership experiences have you had in high school?
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How do you contribute to a team or group setting?
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What role do you see yourself playing in a sorority?
4
How do you handle conflict or disagreements with others?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Focus Only on Social Skills

While social fit is important, also assess academic commitment, leadership potential, and alignment with chapter values.

Avoid Superficial Questions

Ask meaningful questions that reveal character, values, and potential for long-term contribution to the chapter.

Don't Rush the Process

Take time to get to know each PNM thoroughly. Rushed decisions can lead to poor fits and future problems.

Interview Templates

The Comprehensive Assessment

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Step 1: Start with: "What drew you to consider joining a sorority?"
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Step 2: Explore: "What does sisterhood mean to you?"
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Step 3: Assess: "How do you handle balancing academics with activities?"
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Step 4: Evaluate: "What role do you see yourself playing in a sorority?"

The Character Evaluation

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Step 1: Begin with: "What qualities do you value most in friendships?"
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Step 2: Test with: "How do you handle conflict or disagreements?"
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Step 3: Probe with: "What would you do if you disagreed with a chapter decision?"

Further Reading

"The Sorority Life" by Diana B. Turk
"Rush: A Girl's Guide to Sorority Success" by Kelsey Robertson
"Sorority Recruitment Guide" by National Panhellenic Conference

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