Questions to Ask Someone Who Is Dying
Tender, consent-based prompts to honor stories, love, and legacy near the end of life.
1Is there a story you’d like recorded or shared?
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Is there a story you’d like recorded or shared?
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Why this works
Preserves voice and memory as a gift.
2What brings you comfort right now?
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What brings you comfort right now?
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Why this works
Centers immediate care and presence.
3Who would you like to hear from or see?
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Who would you like to hear from or see?
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Why this works
Aligns visits and connections.
4What music, readings, or rituals feel right for you?
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What music, readings, or rituals feel right for you?
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Why this works
Personalizes meaning and atmosphere.
5What do you want us to remember about you?
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What do you want us to remember about you?
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Why this works
Invites identity and legacy in their words.
6Is there anything unsaid that would feel good to express?
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Is there anything unsaid that would feel good to express?
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Why this works
Creates space for completion with safety.
7What decisions would you like help with?
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What decisions would you like help with?
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Why this works
Offers agency and partnership.
8How would you like to be celebrated or honored?
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How would you like to be celebrated or honored?
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Why this works
Guides memorials and traditions.
9What are your wishes for us after?
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What are your wishes for us after?
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Why this works
Gives guidance and comfort to loved ones.
10What gave your life its deepest joy?
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What gave your life its deepest joy?
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Why this works
Centers gratitude and meaning.
11How can I show up best for you today?
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How can I show up best for you today?
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Why this works
Keeps care grounded and practical.
12Would you like company in silence?
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Would you like company in silence?
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Why this works
Respects presence beyond words.
Care with Consent
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.