20 Questions

Questions to Ask When Touring a School

Essential questions to ask during school tours to evaluate academic quality, culture, safety, and whether the environment is right for your child's needs and learning style.

1

What is your approach to differentiated instruction for different learning styles?

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Why this works

Understanding how teachers adapt to individual needs shows whether your child will receive appropriate support regardless of how they learn best.

2

How do you handle bullying and conflict resolution among students?

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Why this works

Safety and social-emotional wellbeing are foundational, and clear policies indicate a proactive approach to student welfare.

3

What is the student-to-teacher ratio, and what is the typical class size?

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Why this works

Smaller ratios often mean more individual attention and better outcomes, especially for students who need extra support.

4

How do you communicate with parents about student progress and concerns?

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Why this works

Regular, transparent communication helps you stay involved in your child's education and address issues before they become problems.

5

What specialized programs do you offer for gifted students or those needing additional support?

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Why this works

Specialized programs ensure all students are appropriately challenged and supported, not just those in the middle.

6

How do you integrate technology into the curriculum?

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Why this works

Technology preparedness matters for modern learning, but balance is key - you want thoughtful integration, not just screen time.

7

What is your homework policy, and how much should we expect nightly?

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Homework loads affect family time and stress levels, and policies should align with your family's values and capacity.

8

How do you support students' social-emotional development?

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Why this works

Academic success depends on emotional wellbeing, and schools should actively foster social-emotional skills and mental health.

9

What extracurricular activities and enrichment programs are available?

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Why this works

Well-rounded education includes activities beyond academics that help students discover interests and develop diverse skills.

10

What safety and security measures do you have in place?

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Why this works

Physical safety is paramount, and schools should have clear protocols for emergencies, visitors, and daily security.

11

How diverse is your student body and teaching staff?

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Why this works

Diversity exposes children to different perspectives and prepares them for a multicultural world while ensuring inclusive environments.

12

What is your teacher retention rate, and how long do teachers typically stay?

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Why this works

High retention indicates satisfied teachers and stable learning environments, while high turnover can disrupt student progress.

13

How do you prepare students for the transition to the next grade level or school?

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Why this works

Transition support helps students succeed at critical junctures and shows the school thinks long-term about student development.

14

What standardized test scores or other achievement metrics can you share?

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Why this works

While not everything, performance data provides objective measures of academic quality and student outcomes over time.

15

How do you incorporate parent and family involvement?

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Why this works

Parent engagement opportunities strengthen the school community and allow you to stay connected to your child's experience.

16

What is your discipline philosophy and how do you handle behavioral issues?

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Why this works

Discipline approaches should align with your values - whether restorative, punitive, or somewhere in between matters for your child.

17

Can you describe a typical day for a student at this grade level?

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Why this works

Daily schedules reveal the balance of academics, play, movement, and rest, helping you envision your child's actual experience.

18

What professional development do teachers receive to stay current?

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Why this works

Ongoing teacher training ensures they're using current best practices and continuously improving their instructional skills.

19

How do you accommodate students with food allergies or dietary restrictions?

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Why this works

Health accommodations show attention to individual needs and how seriously the school takes medical concerns.

20

What do current parents say are the school's greatest strengths and areas for improvement?

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Why this works

Honest feedback from current families provides unfiltered perspectives on the lived experience beyond marketing materials.

Evaluating Schools Effectively

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Tour During School Hours

Visit when classes are in session to observe actual teaching, student engagement, and the real energy of the school environment.

Talk to Current Parents

Ask to speak with parents outside of the official tour to get honest perspectives on strengths and challenges.

Observe Student Behavior

Watch how students interact with each other and teachers - engaged, happy students indicate a healthy school culture.

Trust Your Gut

Beyond data and answers, pay attention to how the environment feels and whether you can imagine your child thriving there.

What to Observe

Signs of Quality Education

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Students actively engaged in learning activities
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Diverse teaching methods beyond lecture-based instruction
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Student work displayed throughout the school
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Clean, organized, well-maintained facilities
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Warm interactions between staff and students

Red Flags to Watch For

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Evasive answers to direct questions
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Chaotic or disengaged classrooms
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Staff who seem stressed or unhappy
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Lack of diversity in students or staff
5
Outdated facilities or resources

Common Pitfalls

Don't Be Swayed by Fancy Facilities Alone

Beautiful buildings don't guarantee quality teaching - focus on instruction, teachers, and student outcomes over aesthetics.

Avoid Making Decisions Based on Convenience Only

Proximity matters, but shouldn't be the primary factor - a longer commute to a better fit may be worth it.

Don't Skip Talking to Your Child

If age-appropriate, get your child's impressions during the tour - their comfort and excitement matters for success.

Conversation Templates

The Academic Quality Assessment

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Step 1: Ask: 'How do you support students who are struggling academically?'
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Step 2: Follow with: 'What about students who need more challenge?'
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Step 3: Explore: 'Can you share examples of how you differentiate instruction?'

The Culture and Safety Check

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Step 1: Start: 'How would you describe your school culture?'
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Step 2: Probe: 'How do you handle bullying or social conflicts?'
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Step 3: Confirm: 'What safety protocols do you have in place?'

Further Reading

GreatSchools.org for school ratings and reviews
"The Schools Our Children Deserve" by Alfie Kohn
"How to Choose a School for Your Child" by NCES
Local parent Facebook groups for insider perspectives

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