20 Questions

Questions to Ask Your Admissions Counselor

Strategic questions to maximize your college application success and understand the admissions process from an insider's perspective.

1

What makes a strong application stand out in your review process?

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Why this works

Reveals the specific qualities and characteristics that admissions counselors value most, helping you understand what to emphasize in your application.

2

How do you evaluate extracurricular activities and leadership experience?

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Shows how to present your activities effectively and reveals whether depth or breadth of involvement is more valued.

3

What role do essays play in your decision-making process?

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Helps you understand the importance of essays and what makes them compelling, allowing you to allocate appropriate time and effort.

4

How do you handle applications from students with unique circumstances or challenges?

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Why this works

Reveals how to present difficult situations constructively and shows the counselor's approach to holistic review.

5

What advice do you have for students who are undecided about their major?

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Provides guidance on how to present uncertainty as a positive trait and shows how to explore interests effectively.

6

How do you evaluate letters of recommendation and what makes them effective?

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Helps you choose the right recommenders and understand what information they should include to strengthen your application.

7

What trends are you seeing in successful applications this year?

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Provides current insights into what's working for applicants and helps you understand evolving expectations.

8

How do you handle applications from students with lower test scores but strong other credentials?

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Why this works

Reveals how to present your strengths when test scores don't reflect your abilities and shows the counselor's approach to holistic review.

9

What questions should I be asking that I might not have thought of?

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Reveals insider knowledge and helps you understand aspects of the application process you might not have considered.

10

How do you evaluate demonstrated interest and campus engagement?

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Shows how to demonstrate genuine interest in the school and reveals what engagement activities are most valued.

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What advice do you have for students applying to competitive programs?

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Provides specific strategies for standing out in highly competitive applicant pools and reveals what makes applications memorable.

12

How do you handle applications from students with gaps in their academic record?

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Shows how to address academic challenges constructively and reveals the counselor's approach to evaluating growth and improvement.

13

What role do interviews play in your admissions process?

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Helps you understand the importance of interviews and what qualities they're designed to assess.

14

How do you evaluate applications from students with non-traditional backgrounds?

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Reveals how to present unique experiences and shows the counselor's approach to evaluating diverse applicant backgrounds.

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What advice do you have for students who are the first in their family to attend college?

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Provides specific guidance for first-generation students and reveals how to present this background as a strength.

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How do you handle applications from students with significant community service experience?

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Shows how to present service experience effectively and reveals what makes community involvement compelling to admissions.

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What advice do you have for students who are applying to multiple schools?

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Why this works

Provides guidance on managing multiple applications and reveals how to tailor applications to different schools effectively.

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How do you evaluate applications from students with strong academic records but limited extracurricular involvement?

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Why this works

Shows how to present academic focus as a strength and reveals what other qualities can compensate for limited activities.

19

What advice do you have for students who are nervous about the admissions process?

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Provides reassurance and practical guidance for managing stress while maintaining focus on creating a strong application.

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How can I best prepare for a successful college experience if I'm admitted?

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Why this works

Shows your long-term thinking and reveals the counselor's perspective on what makes students successful in college.

Best Practices for Admissions Counselor Conversations

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices

Come Prepared with Specific Questions

Research the school and your specific situation beforehand. Ask questions that show you've done your homework and are genuinely interested in the school.

Be Authentic and Honest

Share your true interests, challenges, and goals. Admissions counselors can provide better guidance when they understand your real situation and aspirations.

Take Notes and Follow Up

Document the advice you receive and follow up on any action items. This shows professionalism and helps you implement their suggestions effectively.

Question Sequences

The Application Strategy Sequence

1
What makes a strong application stand out?
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How do you evaluate extracurricular activities?
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What role do essays play in your process?
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What trends are you seeing in successful applications?

The Personal Circumstances Sequence

1
How do you handle applications from students with unique circumstances?
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What advice do you have for first-generation students?
3
How do you evaluate non-traditional backgrounds?
4
How do you handle applications with academic gaps?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Ask Questions You Can Find Online

Avoid basic questions about deadlines, requirements, or general information that's readily available on the school's website.

Don't Focus Only on Getting In

While admission is important, also ask about fit, opportunities, and how to prepare for success if admitted.

Don't Be Overly Aggressive

Show enthusiasm without being pushy. Admissions counselors are busy and appreciate respectful, thoughtful questions.

Conversation Templates

The Strategic Application Focus

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Step 1: Start with: "What makes a strong application stand out?"
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Step 2: Follow with: "How do you evaluate extracurricular activities?"
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Step 3: Deepen with: "What role do essays play in your process?"
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Step 4: Conclude with: "What advice do you have for competitive programs?"

The Personal Circumstances Focus

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Step 1: Begin with: "How do you handle unique circumstances?"
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Step 2: Explore with: "What advice do you have for first-generation students?"
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Step 3: Investigate with: "How do you evaluate non-traditional backgrounds?"
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Step 4: Clarify with: "How can I best prepare for success if admitted?"

Further Reading

"The College Application Essay" by Sarah Myers McGinty
"Admission Matters" by Sally P. Springer
"The Gatekeepers" by Jacques Steinberg

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