20 Questions

Questions to Ask Your Boss

Strategic questions to ask your boss to understand expectations, get feedback, and advance your career while building a strong working relationship.

1

What are your expectations for my role and how will my performance be measured?

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Why this works

Understanding expectations and performance metrics helps you focus on what matters most and succeed in your role.

2

What are the key priorities for our team this quarter?

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Why this works

Knowing team priorities helps you align your work with organizational goals and contribute effectively.

3

How can I best support you and the team's success?

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Why this works

Understanding how to support your boss and team helps you be more valuable and effective in your role.

4

What skills or areas should I focus on developing?

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Why this works

Learning about development areas helps you grow professionally and become more valuable to the organization.

5

What are the biggest challenges facing our team right now?

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Why this works

Understanding team challenges helps you identify opportunities to contribute and solve problems.

6

How do you prefer to communicate and receive updates?

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Why this works

Understanding communication preferences helps you work more effectively with your boss and avoid misunderstandings.

7

What does success look like in this role?

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Why this works

Understanding success criteria helps you focus your efforts and know what to work toward.

8

What are the growth opportunities available in this role?

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Why this works

Learning about growth opportunities helps you plan your career development and advancement.

9

How can I take on more responsibility or challenging projects?

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Why this works

Understanding how to take on more responsibility helps you advance your career and develop new skills.

10

What feedback do you have on my recent work?

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Why this works

Getting regular feedback helps you improve your performance and understand what you're doing well.

11

What are the company's goals and how does our team contribute?

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Why this works

Understanding company goals helps you see how your work fits into the bigger picture and adds value.

12

What are the biggest opportunities for our team?

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Why this works

Learning about team opportunities helps you identify ways to contribute and advance team goals.

13

How can I help improve our team's processes or efficiency?

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Why this works

Understanding how to improve processes helps you add value and demonstrate leadership potential.

14

What are the most important skills for success in this role?

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Why this works

Learning about key skills helps you focus your development efforts and become more effective.

15

How do you handle conflicts or difficult situations?

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Why this works

Understanding your boss's approach to conflicts helps you work more effectively and handle challenges.

16

What are the biggest risks or challenges facing our team?

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Why this works

Understanding team risks helps you prepare for challenges and contribute to risk mitigation.

17

How can I better collaborate with other team members?

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Why this works

Learning about collaboration helps you work more effectively with colleagues and build stronger relationships.

18

What are the most important metrics or KPIs for our team?

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Why this works

Understanding key metrics helps you focus on what matters most and track your contribution.

19

How can I help mentor or support other team members?

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Why this works

Understanding how to support others helps you develop leadership skills and contribute to team success.

20

What are your thoughts on my career development and next steps?

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Why this works

Getting career guidance helps you plan your professional development and advancement.

Building a Strong Relationship with Your Boss

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Creating Meaningful Conversations

Be Proactive and Prepared

Come to meetings with specific questions and examples of your work to discuss.

Listen Actively

Pay attention to your boss's responses and ask follow-up questions to show you're engaged.

Take Action on Feedback

Show that you value their input by implementing their suggestions and following up on their advice.

Natural Conversation Flow

The Performance Check-in

Ask about your recent work and performance
Get feedback on specific projects or tasks
Discuss areas for improvement
Set goals for the next period

The Development Discussion

Explore skills and areas for growth
Discuss career development opportunities
Ask about training and learning resources
Set development goals and plans

The Team Contribution

Understand team priorities and goals
Explore ways to contribute more effectively
Discuss collaboration and teamwork
Identify opportunities for leadership

Common Pitfalls to Avoid

Don't Ask Too Many Questions at Once

Space out your questions and focus on a few key topics per conversation to avoid overwhelming your boss.

Avoid Being Overly Critical

Don't use these conversations to complain or criticize. Focus on constructive feedback and improvement.

Don't Ignore Their Advice

Listen to their guidance and take their advice seriously. They're invested in your success.

Further Reading

"Crucial Conversations" by Kerry Patterson
"The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen Covey
"Getting Things Done" by David Allen

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