Questions to Ask Your Grandkids
Heartwarming questions to connect with your grandchildren, learn about their world, and create lasting memories through meaningful conversations.
1What's the best part of your day today?
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What's the best part of your day today?
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Why this works
Simple, positive opener that encourages sharing of daily experiences and helps you understand what brings joy to your grandchild's life.
2If you could be any animal, which one would you choose and why?
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If you could be any animal, which one would you choose and why?
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Why this works
Fun, imaginative question that reveals personality traits and interests while sparking creative conversations that children love.
3What's something you're really good at that makes you proud?
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What's something you're really good at that makes you proud?
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Why this works
Encourages self-esteem and helps you learn about your grandchild's talents, interests, and what they value about themselves.
4If you could have any superpower, what would it be and how would you use it?
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If you could have any superpower, what would it be and how would you use it?
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Why this works
Creative question that reveals values and priorities while being universally engaging and sparking imaginative discussions.
5What's your favorite thing to do with your friends?
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What's your favorite thing to do with your friends?
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Why this works
Helps you understand their social world and interests, and may reveal opportunities for activities you could do together.
6If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
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If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
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Why this works
Taps into curiosity and dreams while potentially revealing interests in different cultures, places, or activities.
7What's something new you learned recently that excited you?
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What's something new you learned recently that excited you?
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Why this works
Encourages sharing of learning experiences and helps you understand what topics or activities capture their curiosity and enthusiasm.
8If you could have any job when you grow up, what would it be?
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If you could have any job when you grow up, what would it be?
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Why this works
Reveals aspirations and interests while being a classic question that children often enjoy discussing and that can lead to deeper conversations about their dreams.
9What's your favorite way to spend time with family?
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What's your favorite way to spend time with family?
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Why this works
Helps you understand what activities they value most with family and may give you ideas for future family time together.
10If you could invent something to make the world better, what would it be?
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If you could invent something to make the world better, what would it be?
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Why this works
Encourages creative thinking and reveals what problems or issues your grandchild cares about, showing their values and empathy.
11What's something that always makes you laugh?
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What's something that always makes you laugh?
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Why this works
Positive question that helps you understand their sense of humor and what brings them joy, potentially leading to shared laughter.
12If you could have any pet, what would you choose and what would you name it?
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If you could have any pet, what would you choose and what would you name it?
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Why this works
Fun question that reveals preferences and creativity while being universally engaging for children of all ages.
13What's the most interesting thing you've seen or done this week?
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What's the most interesting thing you've seen or done this week?
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Why this works
Encourages sharing of experiences and helps you stay connected to their daily life and what they find exciting or noteworthy.
14If you could teach me something, what would you want to teach me?
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If you could teach me something, what would you want to teach me?
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Why this works
Empowering question that makes them feel valued and knowledgeable while potentially revealing their interests and what they're proud of knowing.
15What's something you're looking forward to?
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What's something you're looking forward to?
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Why this works
Future-focused question that encourages sharing of hopes and plans, creating positive anticipation and showing you care about their future.
16If you could have dinner with anyone (real or fictional), who would it be?
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If you could have dinner with anyone (real or fictional), who would it be?
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Why this works
Reveals interests, values, and role models while being fun to discuss and potentially leading to conversations about their heroes or interests.
17What's your favorite thing about school (or your favorite subject)?
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What's your favorite thing about school (or your favorite subject)?
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Why this works
Helps you understand their academic interests and experiences, showing you care about their education and learning.
18If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
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If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
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Why this works
Encourages thinking about bigger issues and reveals what your grandchild cares about, showing their values and concerns for others.
19What's something you're grateful for today?
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What's something you're grateful for today?
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Why this works
Promotes positive thinking and gratitude while helping you understand what matters most to them in their daily life.
20If you could spend a whole day doing anything you wanted, what would you do?
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If you could spend a whole day doing anything you wanted, what would you do?
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Why this works
Reveals their ideal day and preferences while being fun to discuss and potentially giving you ideas for special activities you could do together.
How to Connect with Your Grandchildren Through Questions
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Best Practices
Get Down to Their Level
Physically get down to their eye level when talking, and mentally meet them where they are in terms of interests and understanding.
Listen with Genuine Interest
Show real enthusiasm for their answers. Children can tell when adults are genuinely interested versus just being polite.
Share Your Own Stories
When appropriate, share your own childhood experiences or stories that relate to what they're talking about to create deeper connections.
Question Sequences
The Daily Life Series
The Imagination Series
Common Pitfalls
Don't Make It an Interview
Space out your questions with natural conversation, your own stories, and activities. The goal is connection, not interrogation.
Don't Correct or Judge
Avoid correcting their answers or making judgments about their choices. Let them express themselves freely without fear of criticism.
Don't Force Serious Topics
If they're not in the mood for deeper conversations, respect that and focus on fun, light questions that still create connection.