What Questions to Ask a Doula
Essential questions to ask a doula to ensure they're the right fit for your birth experience, understand their services, and establish a supportive relationship.
1What is your philosophy on birth and how do you support different birth preferences?
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What is your philosophy on birth and how do you support different birth preferences?
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Why this works
Ensures the doula's approach aligns with your birth goals and values, which is crucial for a supportive and comfortable birth experience.
2What services do you provide during pregnancy, labor, and postpartum?
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What services do you provide during pregnancy, labor, and postpartum?
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Why this works
Clarifies the scope of support and helps you understand what to expect throughout your pregnancy and birth journey.
3How many births have you attended, and what is your experience with different types of births?
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How many births have you attended, and what is your experience with different types of births?
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Why this works
Assesses the doula's experience and expertise, helping you feel confident in their ability to support you through your specific situation.
4What is your availability around my due date, and do you have backup support?
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What is your availability around my due date, and do you have backup support?
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Why this works
Ensures the doula will be available when you need them and that there's a plan in place if they're unavailable.
5How do you work with my partner and family during labor?
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How do you work with my partner and family during labor?
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Why this works
Understands how the doula will involve and support your partner and family, ensuring everyone feels included and supported.
6What is your approach to pain management and comfort measures?
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What is your approach to pain management and comfort measures?
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Why this works
Clarifies the doula's methods for supporting you during labor and helps you understand what comfort measures they can provide.
7How do you handle unexpected situations or complications during labor?
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How do you handle unexpected situations or complications during labor?
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Why this works
Assesses the doula's ability to adapt and support you through challenging situations, which is important for your peace of mind.
8What is your fee structure, and what does it include?
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What is your fee structure, and what does it include?
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Why this works
Clarifies the cost and ensures you understand what services are included, helping you budget and compare options.
9How do you communicate with clients, and what is your response time?
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How do you communicate with clients, and what is your response time?
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Why this works
Ensures you can reach the doula when needed and that communication expectations are clear throughout your relationship.
10What training and certifications do you have?
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What training and certifications do you have?
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Why this works
Verifies the doula's qualifications and ensures they have the necessary training to provide professional support.
11How do you support different birth preferences, including medicated and unmedicated births?
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How do you support different birth preferences, including medicated and unmedicated births?
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Why this works
Ensures the doula can support your specific birth preferences and won't pressure you into choices that don't align with your goals.
12What is your approach to working with healthcare providers and hospital staff?
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What is your approach to working with healthcare providers and hospital staff?
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Why this works
Understands how the doula will collaborate with your medical team and ensures they can work effectively in your chosen birth setting.
13How do you provide emotional support during pregnancy and labor?
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How do you provide emotional support during pregnancy and labor?
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Why this works
Clarifies the emotional support available and helps you understand how the doula will help you feel confident and supported.
14What postpartum support do you provide, and for how long?
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What postpartum support do you provide, and for how long?
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Why this works
Understands the ongoing support available after birth and helps you plan for the postpartum period.
15How do you handle conflicts or disagreements with your clients?
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How do you handle conflicts or disagreements with your clients?
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Why this works
Assesses the doula's communication style and conflict resolution skills, which are important for maintaining a positive relationship.
16What resources or referrals do you provide for additional support?
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What resources or referrals do you provide for additional support?
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Why this works
Identifies additional support options and helps you access resources that can enhance your birth experience.
17How do you support different family structures and cultural backgrounds?
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How do you support different family structures and cultural backgrounds?
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Why this works
Ensures the doula can provide culturally sensitive support and understands your family's unique needs and preferences.
18What is your policy on attending births in different settings (home, hospital, birth center)?
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What is your policy on attending births in different settings (home, hospital, birth center)?
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Why this works
Clarifies the doula's experience and comfort level with different birth settings, ensuring they can support you in your chosen location.
19How do you help prepare for birth, and what education do you provide?
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How do you help prepare for birth, and what education do you provide?
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Why this works
Understands the preparation and education available, helping you feel prepared and confident for your birth experience.
20What questions should I ask other doulas to compare services?
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What questions should I ask other doulas to compare services?
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Why this works
Gets guidance on what to ask other doulas, helping you make an informed decision and find the best fit for your needs.
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