20 Questions

Fun Questions to Ask Your Sister

Playful and engaging questions to spark laughter, create memories, and strengthen your bond with your sister through fun conversations and shared experiences.

1

What's the most embarrassing thing I did when we were kids that you still remember?

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Why this works

Siblings have the best embarrassing stories about each other - this creates laughter and shared memories while being playful and nostalgic.

2

If we could switch lives for one day, what would you do first in my life?

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Why this works

Reveals what aspects of your life she finds interesting or appealing, and shows her perspective on your different experiences and choices.

3

What's the funniest thing our parents ever said that we still quote to each other?

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Why this works

Shared family humor creates connection and brings back positive memories of growing up together.

4

If we were characters in a movie about our family, who would play us and what would the movie be called?

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Why this works

Encourages creativity and humor while revealing how she sees your family dynamic and your individual personalities.

5

What's the weirdest habit I have that you've noticed but never mentioned?

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Why this works

Siblings notice things others don't - this creates intimacy and humor while being lighthearted and accepting.

6

If we could go on a sister road trip anywhere, where would you want to go and what would we do?

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Why this works

Reveals her travel interests and what kind of experiences she'd want to share with you, strengthening your bond.

7

What's the most ridiculous thing you've ever done to get my attention or make me laugh?

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Why this works

Shows her efforts to connect with you and creates shared memories of the lengths siblings go to for each other.

8

If we could have any superpower together, what would it be and how would we use it?

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Why this works

Encourages teamwork and reveals what kind of adventures or help she'd want to provide to others.

9

What's the funniest thing that happened to us as kids that our parents still don't know about?

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Why this works

Shared secrets create intimacy and trust while bringing back fun memories of childhood mischief.

10

If you could give me one piece of advice about life, what would it be?

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Why this works

Shows her care for you and reveals what wisdom or perspective she thinks you might benefit from.

11

What's the most random thing you've ever thought about me that you've never told me?

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Why this works

Reveals her thoughts and observations about you in a playful way, showing how much she thinks about you.

12

If we could be famous for something together, what would it be and why?

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Why this works

Encourages dreaming together and reveals what kind of impact or legacy she'd want to create with you.

13

What's the funniest way you've ever tried to get me to do something I didn't want to do?

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Why this works

Shows her creativity and persistence in trying to influence you, while creating laughter about sibling dynamics.

14

If we could have dinner with anyone from history, who would you choose and what would we ask them?

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Why this works

Reveals her interests and curiosity while creating a fun hypothetical scenario you can explore together.

15

What's the most ridiculous thing you've ever done to try to be like me or copy something I did?

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Why this works

Shows her admiration for you and creates humor about sibling imitation and the desire to be like each other.

16

If we could create our own holiday, what would it be and how would we celebrate it?

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Why this works

Encourages creativity and reveals what traditions or celebrations she values and would want to share with you.

17

What's the funniest thing you've ever seen me do when I thought no one was watching?

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Why this works

Creates intimacy through shared observations and humor about the private moments siblings witness.

18

If we could be any animals together, what would we be and why?

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Why this works

Reveals how she sees your personalities and relationship dynamic in a fun, metaphorical way.

19

What's the most random thing you've ever bought or done because you thought I would like it?

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Why this works

Shows her thoughtfulness and desire to please you, while revealing what she thinks you enjoy or value.

20

If we could go back to any age and relive it together, what age would you choose and why?

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Why this works

Reveals her favorite memories of your relationship and what periods of life she found most meaningful or fun.

Building Strong Sister Bonds Through Fun Conversations

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Best Practices for Sister Conversations

Keep It Light and Playful

Focus on fun, positive topics that create laughter and joy. Save serious conversations for appropriate times when you both have energy and attention.

Be Vulnerable and Silly

Sisters often have the safest space to be completely yourself. Embrace silliness and don't worry about being judged.

Listen to Her Stories

Show genuine interest in her experiences and memories. Siblings often have different perspectives on shared events.

Question Sequences

The Memory Lane Sequence

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What's your favorite memory of us as kids?
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What's the funniest thing that happened to us?
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What do you remember that I've forgotten?
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What would you want to relive together?

The Future Dreams Sequence

1
If we could do anything together, what would it be?
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Where would you want to travel with me?
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What adventure would you want to have?
4
What would our perfect day look like?

Common Pitfalls

Don't Bring Up Old Arguments

Keep fun conversations positive. If old conflicts come up, acknowledge them briefly and redirect to lighter topics.

Don't Compare or Compete

Avoid questions that might make her feel compared to you or others. Focus on celebrating her unique qualities.

Don't Force Serious Topics

Let serious conversations happen naturally. Don't use fun questions as a way to sneak in heavy topics.

Conversation Templates

The Nostalgia Starter

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Step 1: Start with: 'Remember when we were kids and...'
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Step 2: Ask: 'What's your favorite memory from that time?'
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Step 3: Follow with: 'What do you think was the funniest part?'

The Future Dreamer

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Step 1: Begin with: 'If we could do anything together...'
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Step 2: Ask: 'What would be your dream adventure?'
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Step 3: Explore: 'What would make it perfect for you?'

Further Reading

"Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants" by Ann Brashares
"The Sister Knot" by Terri Apter
Family therapy resources for sibling relationships

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