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02 · Social & Fun

TikTok Questions to Ask

Questions for TikTok Q and A videos, street interviews and comment prompts: short enough to fit on screen, open enough that the answer is a story rather than one word.

20 questions · each with a note on why · conversation guide

The questions

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  1. What's a trend you tried once and immediately regretted?

    Why ask it

    Regret plays better on camera than success because the answer arrives with a specific product, haircut or dance attached. If they name the trend but not what went wrong, ask what it cost them, in money or in photos they cannot delete.

  2. What's the last thing you saved on your phone and never looked at again?

    Why ask it

    People answer this by opening their phone, which gives you something to film besides a face. Saved folders are honest in a way stated interests are not.

  3. What's something everyone seems to like that you find overrated?

    Why ask it

    Mild disagreement drives comments without turning the replies into a fight. Watch for people reaching for a safe target like pineapple on pizza, and push once for something they would actually defend at a dinner table.

  4. What's a skill you have that's completely useless in real life?

    Why ask it

    This gets you a demonstration instead of a description, which is the difference between a clip people finish and one they scroll past. Expect whistling, accents, card shuffling, memorised lines.

  5. What's the weirdest compliment you've ever been given?

    Why ask it

    The answer usually comes with the stranger who said it and the moment it landed, so the story tells itself. It also stays light, which makes it a good second question when someone is still stiff on camera.

  6. What did you spend money on this month that you'd defend in court?

    Why ask it

    Framing it as a defence gives people permission to admit the purchase and then argue for it, which is more watchable than a plain list. Vague answers like self care mean you should ask for the receipt total.

  7. What's the last thing that made you laugh out loud when you were completely alone?

    Why ask it

    Laughing alone is a more revealing detail than a favourite comedian, and the answer is often a video or a memory they can show you. If they cannot think of anything, that is worth sitting with rather than moving past.

  8. What's a rule you follow that almost nobody else does?

    Why ask it

    Personal rules expose a whole worldview in one sentence: shoes off, no phones at the table, never the middle seat, always the second cheapest wine. Comment sections argue about these for days.

  9. What's the smallest thing that can ruin your entire day?

    Why ask it

    Precision is the whole point here. Traffic is a non-answer, whereas someone chewing near a microphone or a wet sock is a clip, so keep asking for smaller until it gets specific.

  10. What's the most confident you've ever been while being completely wrong?

    Why ask it

    This asks for a self-deprecating story with a punchline built in, and it works on people who resist earnest questions. If they cannot find one, that reluctance itself often turns out to be the funnier thread.

  11. What's a job you'd probably be great at but would never actually take?

    Why ask it

    Separating aptitude from desire gets past the rehearsed career answer. What they name tends to reveal the part of work they find tolerable and the part they refuse.

  12. What's something you were absolutely certain about at fifteen that you'd argue with now?

    Why ask it

    Naming an age keeps the answer from drifting into abstraction. You get a concrete belief plus the thing that changed it, which is a two-beat story you can cut cleanly.

  13. What's a compliment you got years ago that you still think about?

    Why ask it

    Whoever gave the compliment is usually the real subject, and people rarely expect to be moved by an answer they volunteer this easily. Leave a long pause after this one instead of moving on.

  14. What's something you used to hide about yourself that you're relaxed about now?

    Why ask it

    The word relaxed matters: it signals the resolved version of the story rather than an open wound, so people can answer honestly on camera without regretting it later.

  15. What's the hardest thing you did this year that nobody saw?

    Why ask it

    Invisible effort is the answer people most want to give and are almost never asked for. Bad answers list achievements; good ones describe a Tuesday nobody clapped for.

  16. What's something you changed your mind about because of one conversation?

    Why ask it

    Asking for the conversation, not the opinion, keeps the clip from becoming a political statement while still landing on something substantial.

  17. What advice would you give to someone who's about to be exactly your age?

    Why ask it

    Aimed at a specific listener, advice loses the greeting-card tone it takes on when the question is open ended. Older interviewees tend to get very concrete here, which is why this format travels well.

  18. What's something you'd want people to know about you that never comes up?

    Why ask it

    This is the one people answer with the thing they hoped you would ask. It also rescues an interview that has stayed on the surface for too long.

  19. Who taught you something you still use every day?

    Why ask it

    Naming a person makes the answer specific and usually brings a small physical detail with it, a habit or a phrase, that a general question about influence never produces.

  20. If people only ever saw this one clip of you, what would you want it to show?

    Why ask it

    Save this for last. It hands the person editorial control over their own appearance in your video, and the answer often tells you which of the earlier moments to lead with.

Filming Q and A That People Finish

Practical guidance for the conversation itself

Settle This Before You Press Record

Ask permission to post, not just to film

People agree to be recorded far more readily than they agree to be seen by strangers. Say where it is going and roughly how many people see your videos, and offer a delete-on-request rule out loud. Someone who trusts that rule answers the later questions properly.

One question, not three stacked together

Long compound prompts get answered in one flat clause. Ask the short version, wait, then ask the follow-up as its own question so the edit has two separate beats to cut between.

Ask for the answer in a full sentence

A yes or a single noun is unusable without your voice over the top of it. Say plainly: answer like I am not here, so the clip stands alone if I cut my question out.

Getting an Answer You Can Actually Cut

  • Hold silence for three seconds after they stop talking. The second sentence is usually the one you keep.
  • Follow up once with why or when, then stop. A third follow-up turns the clip into an interrogation.
  • Push for a number, a place or a name whenever an answer stays general.
  • Keep recording through the laugh and the correction. People relax the moment they think the question is over.
  • If someone gives you a rehearsed answer, ask for the version they would tell a friend.

If You Are Stopping Strangers

  • Lead with the lightest question you have. Nobody answers a searching question to a stranger holding a phone.
  • Skip money, immigration status, health and anything about children. It is not worth the comment section for either of you.
  • Check the law where you are filming. Rules on recording and publishing identifiable people vary by country and by state.
  • Never argue with someone who declines. Thank them and move on, on camera as well as off.
  • Delete a clip when asked, even after posting. One person's bad week is not worth a view count.

What Goes Wrong

Leading the answer

Adding an example to your question tells people what you want and they hand it back to you. Ask the bare question and tolerate the pause.

Mining grief for views

Questions about loss, illness or abuse can get a strong reaction from someone who has not decided to be public about it. If the answer would make you uncomfortable to defend in the comments, do not ask it on camera.

Editing someone into a punchline

A clip cut so a person looks stupid brings the strangers to them, not to you. Interviewees notice, and the second person you approach will already have seen it.

Running the same set on everyone

Twenty identical interviews read as a format on the fourth video and as filler by the tenth. Keep two or three prompts fixed for comparison, and let the rest follow whoever is standing in front of you.