What Are Good Questions to Ask Your Crush
Fun and engaging questions to ask your crush to get to know them better, create meaningful conversations, and build a deeper connection.
1What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?
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What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?
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Why this works
Learning about their weekend preferences helps you understand their interests and how they like to relax and have fun.
2What's something you're really passionate about?
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What's something you're really passionate about?
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Why this works
Understanding their passions helps you learn about what excites them and what they care deeply about.
3What's the funniest thing that's ever happened to you?
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What's the funniest thing that's ever happened to you?
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Why this works
This question invites funny stories and creates laughter while helping you get to know their personality and sense of humor.
4What's your favorite type of music and why do you love it?
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What's your favorite type of music and why do you love it?
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Why this works
Learning about their music taste helps you understand their personality and what moves them emotionally.
5What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't yet?
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What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't yet?
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Why this works
Understanding their dreams and aspirations helps you learn about their sense of adventure and what they're curious about.
6What's your favorite memory from childhood?
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What's your favorite memory from childhood?
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Why this works
Sharing childhood memories creates a deeper connection and helps you understand their background and what shaped them.
7What's something that always makes you smile?
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What's something that always makes you smile?
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Why this works
Learning what brings them joy helps you understand their happiness triggers and how to make them feel good.
8What's your favorite way to show someone you care about them?
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What's your favorite way to show someone you care about them?
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Why this works
Understanding their love language helps you know how to make them feel loved and appreciated.
9What's something you're really proud of accomplishing?
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What's something you're really proud of accomplishing?
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Why this works
Learning about their achievements helps you understand what they value and what they're capable of achieving.
10What's your favorite type of food and what's your go-to comfort meal?
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What's your favorite type of food and what's your go-to comfort meal?
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Why this works
Learning about their food preferences helps you understand their tastes and what makes them feel comfortable and happy.
11What's something you're really excited about right now?
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What's something you're really excited about right now?
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Why this works
Sharing in their excitement helps you connect with their positive emotions and shows you care about their happiness.
12What's your favorite way to handle stress or difficult situations?
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What's your favorite way to handle stress or difficult situations?
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Why this works
Learning about their coping strategies helps you understand how they manage challenges and how you can support them.
13What's something you've learned about yourself recently?
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What's something you've learned about yourself recently?
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Why this works
Understanding their self-discovery helps you see how they're growing and evolving as a person.
14What's your favorite way to spend time with friends?
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What's your favorite way to spend time with friends?
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Why this works
Learning about their social preferences helps you understand how they build relationships and what they value in friendships.
15What's something you're really grateful for in your life right now?
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What's something you're really grateful for in your life right now?
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Why this works
Sharing gratitude helps you both focus on positive aspects of life and strengthens your emotional connection.
16What's your favorite way to celebrate special occasions?
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What's your favorite way to celebrate special occasions?
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Why this works
Learning about their celebration preferences helps you understand how they like to mark important moments.
17What's something you're really looking forward to in the future?
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What's something you're really looking forward to in the future?
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Why this works
Sharing future hopes helps you both connect with positive expectations and support each other's dreams.
18What's your favorite way to spend a quiet evening?
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What's your favorite way to spend a quiet evening?
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Why this works
Understanding their quiet time preferences helps you know how they like to relax and what activities they find peaceful.
19What's something you're really curious about or want to learn more about?
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What's something you're really curious about or want to learn more about?
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Why this works
Learning about their curiosity helps you understand their interests and what they're passionate about learning.
20What's your favorite way to make someone's day better?
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What's your favorite way to make someone's day better?
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Why this works
Understanding their kindness helps you see their caring nature and how they make a positive impact on others.
Building a Connection with Your Crush
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Approaching These Conversations
Be Genuine and Curious
Show genuine interest in their responses and ask follow-up questions to deepen the conversation.
Listen Actively
Pay attention to their responses and remember what they share to reference in future conversations.
Share Your Own Answers
Be willing to answer these questions yourself to create a mutual exchange of understanding.
Types of Crush Questions
Interests and Passions
Personality and Values
Future and Growth
Building a Deeper Connection
Follow Up on Their Answers
Reference things they've shared in previous conversations to show you're paying attention and care about them.
Create Shared Experiences
Use what you learn about their interests to suggest activities you can do together.
Be Patient and Respectful
Take time to build the connection naturally and respect their boundaries and comfort level.