100 Questions to Ask Your Cousin
Fun and engaging questions to ask your cousin to strengthen your family bond, learn about their life, and create meaningful conversations.
1What's your favorite childhood memory of us together?
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What's your favorite childhood memory of us together?
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Why this works
This question helps you both reminisce about shared family experiences and strengthens your bond through positive memories.
2What's something you've always wanted to tell me but never had the chance?
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What's something you've always wanted to tell me but never had the chance?
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Why this works
This question creates a safe space for open communication and allows your cousin to share something important they've been holding back.
3What's your biggest dream or goal right now?
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What's your biggest dream or goal right now?
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Why this works
This question reveals your cousin's current aspirations and helps you understand what they're working towards in their life.
4What's the funniest thing that's happened to you recently?
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What's the funniest thing that's happened to you recently?
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Why this works
This question brings lightness and humor to your conversation, helping you both share laughs and positive experiences.
5What's something you're really proud of that you've accomplished?
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What's something you're really proud of that you've accomplished?
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Why this works
This question allows your cousin to share their achievements and gives you an opportunity to celebrate their success.
6What's your favorite family tradition and why do you love it?
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What's your favorite family tradition and why do you love it?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand what family traditions mean to your cousin and what they value about your shared family culture.
7What's something you wish you could change about your life right now?
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What's something you wish you could change about your life right now?
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Why this works
This question creates space for vulnerability and allows your cousin to share their challenges and areas for growth.
8What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?
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What's your favorite way to spend a weekend?
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Why this works
This question reveals your cousin's interests and hobbies, helping you understand what they enjoy doing in their free time.
9What's the best advice you've ever received?
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What's the best advice you've ever received?
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Why this works
This question allows your cousin to share wisdom that has influenced them and gives you insight into their values and experiences.
10What's something you're looking forward to in the next year?
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What's something you're looking forward to in the next year?
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Why this works
This question reveals your cousin's hopes and excitement for the future, helping you understand their priorities and goals.
11What's your favorite family story that you've heard?
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What's your favorite family story that you've heard?
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Why this works
This question helps you both explore your family history and share stories that connect you to your shared heritage.
12What's something you've learned about yourself recently?
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What's something you've learned about yourself recently?
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Why this works
This question reveals your cousin's self-awareness and growth, showing their capacity for reflection and personal development.
13What's your favorite way to relax and unwind?
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What's your favorite way to relax and unwind?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand your cousin's self-care needs and how they prefer to recharge and de-stress.
14What's something you're grateful for today?
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What's something you're grateful for today?
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Why this works
This question promotes gratitude and positive thinking, helping you both focus on the good things in your lives.
15What's your favorite memory of our grandparents or other family members?
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What's your favorite memory of our grandparents or other family members?
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Why this works
This question helps you both connect to your shared family history and remember loved ones who have influenced your lives.
16What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't had the chance?
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What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't had the chance?
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Why this works
This question reveals your cousin's interests and aspirations, and might give you ideas for future activities together.
17What's your favorite thing about our family?
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What's your favorite thing about our family?
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Why this works
This question helps you both appreciate your family's positive qualities and strengthens your sense of family identity.
18What's something that makes you really happy?
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What's something that makes you really happy?
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Why this works
This question reveals what brings joy to your cousin's life and helps you understand what they value most.
19What's your favorite way to celebrate special occasions?
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What's your favorite way to celebrate special occasions?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand your cousin's preferences for celebrations and how they like to mark important moments.
20What's something you wish you could tell your younger self?
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What's something you wish you could tell your younger self?
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Why this works
This question allows your cousin to reflect on their growth and share wisdom they've gained over time.
Best Practices for Cousin Questions
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Best Practices
Start with Shared Memories
Begin with questions about shared family experiences and memories to create a foundation of connection and nostalgia.
Focus on Personal Growth
Ask about their current goals, dreams, and what they've learned about themselves to understand their personal journey.
Explore Family Connections
Ask about family traditions, stories, and relationships to strengthen your shared family identity and connection.
Question Sequences
The Memory Explorer
The Personal Growth Explorer
Common Pitfalls
Don't Ask About Sensitive Family Issues
Avoid asking about family conflicts, personal problems, or other sensitive topics that might create tension or discomfort.
Avoid Asking About Personal Finances
Don't ask about personal financial situations or family income. Focus on personal experiences and relationships instead.
Don't Make Assumptions About Their Life
Ask open-ended questions that allow your cousin to describe their experiences rather than making assumptions about their life or choices.