20 Questions

Questions to Ask a Drunk Person

Light-hearted questions to help you engage with someone who has been drinking, while being respectful and mindful of their state.

1

What's the funniest thing that's happened to you recently?

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Why this works

Understanding their recent experiences helps you see what they find amusing and can lead to entertaining conversations.

2

What's your favorite way to have fun?

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Why this works

Understanding their fun preferences helps you see what they enjoy and what makes them happy.

3

What's the best advice you've ever received?

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Why this works

Understanding their advice helps you see what they value and what wisdom they've gained from experience.

4

What's something you're really good at that you're proud of?

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Why this works

Understanding their strengths helps you see what they value and what they're proud of.

5

What's your favorite memory from when you were young?

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Why this works

Understanding their favorite memories helps you see what they value and what experiences they cherish.

6

What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?

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Why this works

Understanding their recent learning helps you see what they find interesting and what engages them.

7

What's your favorite way to relax and unwind?

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Why this works

Understanding their relaxation preferences helps you see what they value and what helps them feel comfortable.

8

What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't yet?

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Why this works

Understanding their aspirations helps you see what they want to do and what interests them.

9

What's your favorite way to spend time with friends?

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Why this works

Understanding their friendship preferences helps you see what they value about relationships and what they enjoy doing together.

10

What's the most creative thing you've ever done?

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Why this works

Understanding their creativity helps you see what they value about imagination and what engages them.

11

What's your favorite way to celebrate special occasions?

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Why this works

Understanding their celebration preferences helps you see what they value about special occasions and what makes them happy.

12

What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done?

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Why this works

Understanding their adventures helps you see what they value about excitement and what engages them.

13

What's your favorite way to help others?

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Why this works

Understanding their helping preferences helps you see what they value about service and what makes them feel good.

14

What's the most interesting place you've ever been?

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Why this works

Understanding their travel experiences helps you see what they value about exploration and what engages them.

15

What's your favorite way to learn new things?

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Why this works

Understanding their learning preferences helps you see what they value about education and what engages them.

16

What's the most thoughtful thing someone has ever done for you?

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Why this works

Understanding their thoughtful experiences helps you see what they value about kindness and what makes them feel appreciated.

17

What's your favorite way to express yourself?

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Why this works

Understanding their expression preferences helps you see what they value about communication and what engages them.

18

What's the most meaningful relationship you've ever had?

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Why this works

Understanding their meaningful relationships helps you see what they value about connections and what makes them feel loved.

19

What's your favorite way to make someone smile?

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Why this works

Understanding their smile-making preferences helps you see what they value about happiness and what engages them.

20

What's the most important thing you've learned about life?

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Why this works

Understanding their life lessons helps you see what they value about wisdom and what they've learned from experience.

Engaging with Someone Who Has Been Drinking

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Having Respectful Conversations

Be Respectful and Kind

Remember that alcohol can affect judgment and behavior. Be patient, understanding, and avoid taking advantage of their state.

Keep It Light and Fun

Focus on positive, entertaining topics that can lead to enjoyable conversations without being too serious or complex.

Know When to Stop

If someone seems too intoxicated or uncomfortable, it's better to end the conversation and check on their well-being.

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