20 Questions

Questions to Ask About Japan

Curious prompts about Japan’s culture, travel, food, customs, and everyday life—ideal for learning from locals or seasoned travelers respectfully.

1

What everyday etiquette should visitors know beyond the obvious?

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Why this works

Learns practical norms that build respect and ease.

2

What regional food or drink do locals wish more visitors tried?

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Why this works

Opens doors to authentic tastes outside tourist paths.

3

Which seasonal experiences are most special in your area?

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Why this works

Aligns plans with festivals, foliage, and local rhythms.

4

What’s a small cultural detail you love noticing?

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Why this works

Invites personal perspective rather than stereotypes.

5

How do people typically make new friends or communities?

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Why this works

Explores social fabric and connection spaces.

6

What’s a common travel mistake visitors make—and the better option?

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Why this works

Gathers practical, experience-based tips.

7

How do you choose between onsen, sento, and private baths?

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Why this works

Demystifies bathing culture and etiquette.

8

What’s a place meaningful to you that tourists rarely see?

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Why this works

Finds personal, respectful points of interest.

9

What cashless and transit tools make life easiest?

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Why this works

Improves logistics with Suica/PASMO, IC cards, and apps.

10

How should we navigate shrines and temples respectfully?

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Why this works

Centers ritual awareness and photography norms.

11

What’s your favorite konbini discovery?

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Why this works

Shares delightful, everyday micro-experiences.

12

How do locals approach gift-giving and omiyage?

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Why this works

Explains social rituals and reciprocity.

13

What’s different about work–life balance where you live?

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Why this works

Invites nuance without generalization.

14

Which rail etiquette rules matter most during rush hours?

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Why this works

Improves commuter harmony and respect.

15

What neighborhood markets or kissaten feel timeless?

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Why this works

Connects to heritage spaces and slow experiences.

16

How do you recommend learning a few useful phrases?

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Why this works

Encourages language humility and connection.

17

What’s a book, film, or anime that reflects real life well?

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Why this works

Builds cultural understanding through media.

18

What’s a common misconception about Japan you’d correct?

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Why this works

Replaces myths with lived reality.

19

How do you approach trash sorting and environmental rules?

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Why this works

Avoids faux pas and supports local systems.

20

What’s your perfect slow day in your city?

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Why this works

Designs respectful itineraries around local joy.

Learn by Listening

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Respect, Curiosity, Consent

Ask Openly

Invite personal views; avoid treating anyone as a spokesperson.

Follow Local Lead

Let your host set pace and boundaries.

Give Back

Share appreciation or small omiyage where appropriate.

Conversation Arc

Arc

1
Daily life
2
Food & places
3
Traditions & meaning

Common Pitfalls

Stereotype Fishing

Seek nuance; avoid sweeping claims.

Photo First

Ask before filming in sacred or private spaces.

Polite Starter

Phrase Flow

1
Step 1: ‘Sumimasen, ii desu ka?’
2
Step 2: ‘Arigatou gozaimasu’
3
Step 3: ‘Onegaishimasu’

Further Reading

Local etiquette guides
JR travel resources

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