Questions to Ask During Speed Dating
Questions to Ask During Speed Dating
Fast, flirty prompts that reveal vibe, values, and chemistry in just a few minutes.
1What’s something small that makes your day better?
What’s something small that makes your day better?
Positive energy and daily rhythms.
2What weekend feels perfect to you?
What weekend feels perfect to you?
Lifestyle alignment in one picture.
3What’s a recent ‘first’ you tried?
What’s a recent ‘first’ you tried?
Curiosity and openness to novelty.
4What’s your go-to comfort food?
What’s your go-to comfort food?
Sensory joy plus follow-up potential.
5What do your friends rely on you for?
What do your friends rely on you for?
Reputation and relational role.
6What’s your favorite kind of plan: spontaneous or scheduled?
What’s your favorite kind of plan: spontaneous or scheduled?
Time style compatibility.
7Pet photos or travel photos—what would you show me first?
Pet photos or travel photos—what would you show me first?
Fun fork that leads to stories.
8What do you wish people asked you more about?
What do you wish people asked you more about?
Invites best self without bragging.
9What’s a green flag you look for?
What’s a green flag you look for?
Values in action, not just labels.
10What song would soundtrack your week?
What song would soundtrack your week?
Mood check with personality.
11If we had five extra minutes, what would we do?
If we had five extra minutes, what would we do?
Tests playful initiative.
12What should I put next to your name so I remember you?
What should I put next to your name so I remember you?
Creates a memorable, warm exit.
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Tips
Smile, eye contact, short answers
Ask one follow-up per question
Jot notes right after each round