Questions to Ask During Speed Dating
Fast, flirty prompts that reveal vibe, values, and chemistry in just a few minutes.
1What’s something small that makes your day better?
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What’s something small that makes your day better?
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Why this works
Positive energy and daily rhythms.
2What weekend feels perfect to you?
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What weekend feels perfect to you?
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Why this works
Lifestyle alignment in one picture.
3What’s a recent ‘first’ you tried?
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What’s a recent ‘first’ you tried?
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Why this works
Curiosity and openness to novelty.
4What’s your go-to comfort food?
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What’s your go-to comfort food?
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Why this works
Sensory joy plus follow-up potential.
5What do your friends rely on you for?
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What do your friends rely on you for?
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Why this works
Reputation and relational role.
6What’s your favorite kind of plan: spontaneous or scheduled?
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What’s your favorite kind of plan: spontaneous or scheduled?
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Why this works
Time style compatibility.
7Pet photos or travel photos—what would you show me first?
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Pet photos or travel photos—what would you show me first?
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Why this works
Fun fork that leads to stories.
8What do you wish people asked you more about?
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What do you wish people asked you more about?
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Why this works
Invites best self without bragging.
9What’s a green flag you look for?
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What’s a green flag you look for?
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Why this works
Values in action, not just labels.
10What song would soundtrack your week?
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What song would soundtrack your week?
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Why this works
Mood check with personality.
11If we had five extra minutes, what would we do?
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If we had five extra minutes, what would we do?
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Why this works
Tests playful initiative.
12What should I put next to your name so I remember you?
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What should I put next to your name so I remember you?
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Why this works
Creates a memorable, warm exit.
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