Questions to Ask Speed Dating
Quick, engaging questions to make meaningful connections during speed dating events and maximize your chances of finding a compatible match.
1What's the most spontaneous thing you've done recently?
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What's the most spontaneous thing you've done recently?
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Why this works
Reveals personality, adventure level, and gives insight into their lifestyle and decision-making style.
2If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be and why?
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If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would it be and why?
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Why this works
Shows values, interests, and intellectual curiosity while being universally engaging and easy to answer.
3What's something you're really passionate about that most people don't know?
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What's something you're really passionate about that most people don't know?
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Why this works
Reveals hidden depths, interests, and what drives them beyond surface-level conversation.
4What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?
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What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?
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Why this works
Shows wisdom, values, and how they process and apply guidance in their life.
5If you could travel anywhere right now, where would you go and what would you do there?
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If you could travel anywhere right now, where would you go and what would you do there?
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Why this works
Reveals travel interests, adventure level, and gives insight into their ideal experiences and lifestyle.
6What's something you're really good at that you're proud of?
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What's something you're really good at that you're proud of?
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Why this works
Shows confidence, skills, and what they value about themselves while being positive and engaging.
7What's the last thing that made you laugh really hard?
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What's the last thing that made you laugh really hard?
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Why this works
Reveals sense of humor, what they find funny, and creates a light, positive atmosphere.
8If you could learn any new skill instantly, what would it be?
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If you could learn any new skill instantly, what would it be?
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Why this works
Shows interests, aspirations, and what they value learning or experiencing.
9What's your idea of a perfect weekend?
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What's your idea of a perfect weekend?
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Why this works
Reveals lifestyle preferences, energy level, and how they like to spend their free time.
10What's something you're looking forward to in the next few months?
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What's something you're looking forward to in the next few months?
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Why this works
Shows optimism, future planning, and what excites them about their life.
11If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
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If you could change one thing about the world, what would it be?
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Why this works
Reveals values, social awareness, and what they care about beyond themselves.
12What's the most interesting place you've ever been?
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What's the most interesting place you've ever been?
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Why this works
Shows travel experience, curiosity, and gives insight into what they find fascinating.
13What's something you do that always makes you feel better?
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What's something you do that always makes you feel better?
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Why this works
Reveals coping mechanisms, self-care practices, and what brings them joy or comfort.
14If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?
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If you could have any superpower, what would it be and why?
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Why this works
Fun, creative question that reveals personality, values, and how they think about helping others.
15What's the best book, movie, or show you've experienced recently?
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What's the best book, movie, or show you've experienced recently?
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Why this works
Shows interests, taste, and gives insight into what they find entertaining or meaningful.
16What's something you're really looking forward to trying or doing?
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What's something you're really looking forward to trying or doing?
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Why this works
Shows enthusiasm, future orientation, and what excites them about new experiences.
17If you could live in any time period, when would it be and why?
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If you could live in any time period, when would it be and why?
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Why this works
Reveals interests, values, and gives insight into what they find appealing about different eras.
18What's the most meaningful compliment you've ever received?
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What's the most meaningful compliment you've ever received?
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Why this works
Shows what they value about themselves and how they want to be seen by others.
19What's something you're really curious about or want to learn more about?
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What's something you're really curious about or want to learn more about?
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Why this works
Reveals intellectual interests, curiosity, and what drives their desire to learn and grow.
20If you could have any job for a day, what would it be?
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If you could have any job for a day, what would it be?
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Why this works
Shows interests, aspirations, and gives insight into what they find appealing or exciting.
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