Questions to Ask Ur Sister
Thoughtful questions that help you strengthen your sibling bond, understand her better, and build a deeper connection with your sister.
1What's something about me that you've always wanted to tell me but never have?
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What's something about me that you've always wanted to tell me but never have?
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Why this works
This question opens the door for honest communication and gives her a chance to share thoughts she might have been holding back, strengthening your relationship.
2What's your favorite memory of us growing up together?
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What's your favorite memory of us growing up together?
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Why this works
Sharing favorite memories helps you both reconnect with positive experiences and gives you insight into what moments she values most in your relationship.
3What's something you're proud of that you've accomplished recently?
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What's something you're proud of that you've accomplished recently?
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Why this works
This question shows you care about her achievements and gives her a chance to share what she's proud of, strengthening your bond and showing support.
4What's something you're struggling with right now that you'd like my support with?
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What's something you're struggling with right now that you'd like my support with?
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Why this works
This question shows you're there for her and gives her a chance to ask for help, strengthening your relationship and showing you care about her well-being.
5What's something about our family that you think we should talk about more?
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What's something about our family that you think we should talk about more?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand her perspective on family dynamics and gives you insight into what she thinks needs attention or discussion.
6What's something you've learned about yourself recently that surprised you?
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What's something you've learned about yourself recently that surprised you?
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Why this works
This question shows interest in her personal growth and gives her a chance to share insights about herself, deepening your understanding of who she is.
7What's something you wish I knew about you that I might not understand?
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What's something you wish I knew about you that I might not understand?
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Why this works
This question gives her a chance to share aspects of herself that you might not know about, helping you understand her better and strengthen your connection.
8What's something about our relationship that you value most?
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What's something about our relationship that you value most?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand what she values in your relationship and gives you insight into what makes your bond special to her.
9What's something you'd like to do together that we haven't done in a while?
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What's something you'd like to do together that we haven't done in a while?
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Why this works
This question shows you want to spend time together and gives her a chance to suggest activities that would strengthen your relationship.
10What's something you're looking forward to in the next year?
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What's something you're looking forward to in the next year?
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Why this works
This question shows interest in her future and gives her a chance to share her hopes and dreams, strengthening your connection and showing support.
11What's something about our parents that you think we should appreciate more?
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What's something about our parents that you think we should appreciate more?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand her perspective on your parents and gives you insight into what she values about your family relationships.
12What's something you've changed your mind about recently?
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What's something you've changed your mind about recently?
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Why this works
This question shows interest in her growth and gives her a chance to share how her perspectives have evolved, deepening your understanding of her.
13What's something you're grateful for that you might not have appreciated when we were younger?
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What's something you're grateful for that you might not have appreciated when we were younger?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand her current values and gives her a chance to share what she's learned to appreciate, strengthening your bond.
14What's something you'd like to learn or try that you haven't had the chance to?
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What's something you'd like to learn or try that you haven't had the chance to?
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Why this works
This question shows interest in her interests and gives her a chance to share her aspirations, potentially opening up opportunities for you to support her.
15What's something about our childhood that you think shaped who we are today?
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What's something about our childhood that you think shaped who we are today?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand her perspective on your shared history and gives you insight into how she sees the impact of your upbringing.
16What's something you're worried about that you'd like to talk about?
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What's something you're worried about that you'd like to talk about?
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Why this works
This question shows you care about her concerns and gives her a chance to share what's on her mind, strengthening your relationship and showing support.
17What's something you'd like to change about our relationship?
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What's something you'd like to change about our relationship?
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Why this works
This question gives her a chance to share what she'd like to improve and gives you insight into how to strengthen your bond and make your relationship better.
18What's something you're proud of about our family?
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What's something you're proud of about our family?
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Why this works
This question helps you understand what she values about your family and gives her a chance to share positive aspects of your family relationships.
19What's something you'd like to know about me that you've never asked?
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What's something you'd like to know about me that you've never asked?
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Why this works
This question gives her a chance to ask about aspects of your life she's curious about, strengthening your relationship and showing mutual interest.
20What's something you hope we can do together in the future?
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What's something you hope we can do together in the future?
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Why this works
This question shows you want to continue building your relationship and gives her a chance to share her hopes for your future together.
Best Practices for Sibling Relationships
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Best Practices
Show Genuine Interest
Ask questions that demonstrate you're genuinely interested in her life, thoughts, and feelings. This shows you value her as a person and care about your relationship.
Be Open and Vulnerable
Share your own thoughts and feelings when appropriate. This creates a safe space for honest communication and strengthens your bond.
Listen Without Judgment
Listen to her responses without judgment or criticism. This creates a safe space for honest communication and strengthens your relationship.
Respect Her Boundaries
Respect her boundaries and don't push for information she's not comfortable sharing. This shows you respect her privacy and comfort level.
Question Sequences
The Memory Builder
The Future Planner
Common Pitfalls
Don't Make It an Interrogation
Keep the conversation casual and conversational. Don't fire off questions one after another - let the conversation flow naturally.
Avoid Sensitive Topics
Don't ask about topics that might be sensitive or painful unless she brings them up. Focus on positive, forward-looking topics that strengthen your relationship.
Don't Ignore Her Responses
Pay attention to her responses and ask follow-up questions. This shows you're engaged and interested in what she has to say.