20 Questions

Questions to Ask When Designing a House

Essential questions to ask when designing a house to ensure your home meets your needs, lifestyle, and budget while maximizing functionality and comfort.

1

What is your budget for the project and how do you want to allocate it across different areas?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding your budget helps prioritize spending and ensures the design stays within financial constraints while meeting your most important needs.

2

How many people will be living in the house and what are their ages and needs?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Knowing the household composition helps design appropriate spaces, safety features, and accommodations for different life stages.

3

What are your daily routines and how do you want the house to support them?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding your lifestyle helps create a functional layout that supports your daily activities and routines.

4

What are your must-have features and what would be nice to have?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Prioritizing features helps ensure the most important elements are included while staying within budget constraints.

5

How do you want to use outdoor spaces and what outdoor activities are important to you?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding outdoor needs helps design appropriate outdoor living spaces, gardens, and recreational areas.

6

What are your energy efficiency and sustainability goals for the house?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Knowing your environmental priorities helps incorporate appropriate systems and materials for energy efficiency and sustainability.

7

How do you want to handle storage and what items need to be stored?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding storage needs helps design adequate closet space, pantries, and storage solutions throughout the house.

8

What are your entertainment and hosting needs and how often do you entertain?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Knowing your social needs helps design appropriate spaces for entertaining and hosting guests.

9

How do you want to handle work or study spaces and what are your work-from-home needs?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding work needs helps design appropriate home office spaces and work areas.

10

What are your accessibility needs and how might they change over time?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Planning for accessibility ensures the house can accommodate changing needs and provides long-term livability.

11

How do you want to handle heating, cooling, and ventilation throughout the house?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding climate control needs helps design appropriate HVAC systems and energy-efficient solutions.

12

What are your preferences for natural light and how do you want to control it?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding light preferences helps design window placement, skylights, and lighting control systems.

13

How do you want to handle noise control and privacy between different areas?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding privacy needs helps design appropriate sound control and privacy features between rooms and areas.

14

What are your preferences for materials and finishes throughout the house?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Knowing your material preferences helps create a cohesive design aesthetic and ensures durability and maintenance considerations.

15

How do you want to handle technology and smart home features?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding technology needs helps design appropriate wiring, outlets, and smart home infrastructure.

16

What are your preferences for the kitchen layout and what cooking and dining habits do you have?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding kitchen needs helps design an efficient layout that supports your cooking and dining routines.

17

How do you want to handle laundry and what are your laundry needs?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding laundry needs helps design appropriate laundry spaces and equipment placement.

18

What are your preferences for the master bedroom and bathroom layout?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding bedroom needs helps design a comfortable and functional master suite that meets your preferences.

19

How do you want to handle guest accommodations and what are your hosting needs?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding guest needs helps design appropriate guest spaces and accommodations for visitors.

20

What are your long-term plans for the house and how might your needs change?

Click to see why this works

Why this works

Understanding future needs helps design a house that can adapt to changing circumstances and life stages.

Designing Your Dream Home

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Effective House Design Planning

Start with Your Lifestyle

Focus on how you actually live and what you need, not just what looks good in magazines or on TV.

Plan for the Future

Consider how your needs might change over time and design spaces that can adapt to different life stages.

Balance Wants and Needs

Distinguish between must-have features and nice-to-have elements to stay within budget while meeting your priorities.

Key Areas to Explore

Budget and financial planning
Household composition and needs
Daily routines and lifestyle
Must-have vs. nice-to-have features
Outdoor living and recreation
Energy efficiency and sustainability
Storage and organization
Entertainment and hosting
Work and study spaces
Accessibility and aging in place

Common Mistakes to Avoid

Don't Ignore Your Budget

Be realistic about what you can afford and prioritize spending on the most important features and areas.

Don't Design for Others

Focus on your own needs and preferences rather than trying to impress others or follow trends.

Don't Skip the Details

Pay attention to practical details like storage, lighting, and accessibility that affect daily living.

Design Frameworks

The Lifestyle Explorer

1
Step 1: Start with: 'How do you want to use this space daily?'
2
Step 2: Follow with: 'What are your must-have features?'
3
Step 3: Deepen with: 'How might your needs change over time?'

The Budget Planner

1
Step 1: Begin with: 'What is your total budget for the project?'
2
Step 2: Continue with: 'How do you want to allocate spending?'
3
Step 3: Explore with: 'What are your priorities for investment?'

Further Reading

"The Not So Big House" by Sarah Susanka
"Home by Design" by Sarah Susanka
"The Complete Guide to Home Design" by Better Homes and Gardens

Find Your Perfect Questions

Search our collection of thoughtful questions for any conversation or situation