20 Questions

Hard Questions to Ask a Christian

Thoughtful and challenging questions to ask a Christian to explore faith, beliefs, and spiritual understanding.

1

How do you reconcile the existence of suffering and evil with a loving, all-powerful God?

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Why this works

This addresses the fundamental problem of evil, one of the most challenging theological questions.

2

What evidence would convince you that Christianity is not true?

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Why this works

Tests intellectual honesty and openness to alternative perspectives.

3

How do you interpret biblical passages that seem to condone violence or injustice?

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Why this works

Challenges them to address difficult biblical texts that appear morally problematic.

4

Why would a just God send people to hell for not believing, especially those who never heard the gospel?

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Why this works

Addresses the fairness of eternal punishment and the accessibility of salvation.

5

How do you explain the scientific evidence for evolution and an old earth?

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Why this works

Tests their approach to reconciling faith with scientific evidence.

6

What do you think about other religions and their claims to truth?

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Why this works

Explores their perspective on religious pluralism and exclusivity.

7

How do you handle doubts about your faith, and what causes you to question?

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Why this works

Encourages honest reflection about faith struggles and intellectual challenges.

8

What do you think about the historical reliability of the Bible?

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Why this works

Tests their understanding of biblical scholarship and historical criticism.

9

How do you explain the problem of unanswered prayers?

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Why this works

Addresses the practical challenge of prayer and divine intervention.

10

What do you think about the role of women in the church and society?

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Why this works

Explores their views on gender equality and biblical interpretation.

11

How do you handle the tension between faith and reason?

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Why this works

Tests their approach to intellectual inquiry and critical thinking.

12

What do you think about the problem of religious diversity and truth claims?

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Why this works

Explores their perspective on religious truth and exclusivity.

13

How do you explain the existence of other religions with similar claims?

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Why this works

Tests their understanding of religious pluralism and comparative religion.

14

What do you think about the problem of divine hiddenness?

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Why this works

Addresses why God might not be more evident to all people.

15

How do you handle the tension between free will and divine sovereignty?

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Why this works

Explores the complex relationship between human choice and divine control.

16

What do you think about the problem of religious experience and its reliability?

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Why this works

Tests their understanding of religious experience and its validity.

17

How do you explain the problem of religious disagreement among Christians?

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Why this works

Addresses the diversity of Christian beliefs and interpretations.

18

What do you think about the problem of religious violence and extremism?

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Why this works

Explores their perspective on religious extremism and violence.

19

How do you handle the tension between faith and doubt?

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Why this works

Tests their approach to intellectual honesty and spiritual authenticity.

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What do you think about the problem of religious exclusivity and inclusivity?

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Why this works

Explores their perspective on salvation and who can be saved.

Engaging in Meaningful Spiritual Dialogue

Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.

Approaching the Conversation

Be Respectful

Approach the conversation with respect for their beliefs and spiritual journey.

Listen Actively

Pay attention to their responses and show genuine interest in their perspective.

Ask Follow-up Questions

Ask follow-up questions to deepen understanding and explore their reasoning.

Understanding Their Perspective

Seek Understanding

Focus on understanding their beliefs rather than challenging or converting them.

Explore Reasoning

Ask about the reasoning behind their beliefs and how they arrived at their conclusions.

Respect Differences

Respect differences in belief and avoid being confrontational or dismissive.

Maintaining Dialogue

Stay Open

Keep an open mind and be willing to learn from their perspective.

Share Your Views

Share your own thoughts and questions in a respectful and thoughtful way.

Build Connection

Focus on building understanding and connection rather than winning arguments.

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