Questions to Ask a Guy to Know His Intentions
Important questions to ask a guy to understand his intentions, assess relationship potential, and make informed decisions about your romantic future.
1What are you looking for in a relationship and what are your goals?
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What are you looking for in a relationship and what are your goals?
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Why this works
Understanding his relationship goals helps you assess if you're on the same page and have compatible intentions.
2How do you see our relationship developing and what are your expectations?
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How do you see our relationship developing and what are your expectations?
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Why this works
Learning about his expectations helps you understand his vision for the relationship and what he's hoping for.
3What does commitment mean to you and how do you approach it?
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What does commitment mean to you and how do you approach it?
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Why this works
Understanding his commitment style helps you assess if he's ready for the level of commitment you're seeking.
4How do you handle conflict and what is your approach to problem-solving?
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How do you handle conflict and what is your approach to problem-solving?
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Why this works
Learning about his conflict resolution helps you understand how he handles challenges and maintains relationships.
5What are your values and what is most important to you in life?
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What are your values and what is most important to you in life?
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Why this works
Understanding his values helps you assess if you share important beliefs and have compatible life priorities.
6How do you see your future and what are your long-term goals?
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How do you see your future and what are your long-term goals?
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Why this works
Learning about his future vision helps you understand if your life goals are compatible and aligned.
7What is your approach to communication and how do you prefer to handle important conversations?
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What is your approach to communication and how do you prefer to handle important conversations?
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Why this works
Understanding his communication style helps you know how to approach difficult topics and maintain healthy dialogue.
8How do you handle trust and what does it mean to you?
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How do you handle trust and what does it mean to you?
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Why this works
Learning about his trust approach helps you understand his expectations and how he builds and maintains trust.
9What are your thoughts on family and what role do you see it playing in your life?
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What are your thoughts on family and what role do you see it playing in your life?
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Why this works
Understanding his family perspective helps you assess if your family goals and values are compatible.
10How do you handle personal growth and what are your development goals?
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How do you handle personal growth and what are your development goals?
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Why this works
Learning about his growth approach helps you understand if he's committed to personal development and relationship growth.
11What are your thoughts on intimacy and what does it mean to you?
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What are your thoughts on intimacy and what does it mean to you?
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Why this works
Understanding his intimacy perspective helps you assess if your physical and emotional needs are compatible.
12How do you handle boundaries and what are your expectations for personal space?
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How do you handle boundaries and what are your expectations for personal space?
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Why this works
Learning about his boundary approach helps you understand how he respects personal space and maintains healthy relationships.
13What are your thoughts on marriage and what are your long-term relationship goals?
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What are your thoughts on marriage and what are your long-term relationship goals?
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Why this works
Understanding his marriage perspective helps you assess if your relationship goals are aligned and compatible.
14How do you handle change and what is your approach to adapting to new situations?
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How do you handle change and what is your approach to adapting to new situations?
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Why this works
Learning about his change approach helps you understand how he handles life transitions and relationship growth.
15What advice would you give to someone considering a relationship with you?
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What advice would you give to someone considering a relationship with you?
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Why this works
Getting his perspective helps you understand his self-awareness and what he thinks about his relationship potential.
Maximizing Relationship Intention Conversations
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Effective Communication Strategies
Be Direct
Ask clear, direct questions about his intentions and expectations to get honest answers.
Listen Actively
Pay attention to his responses and ask follow-up questions to show you're engaged and understanding.
Be Honest
Share your own thoughts and feelings to create a two-way conversation about relationship intentions.