Questions to Ask in Wavelength
Homemade spectrum prompts for Wavelength, for when the deck runs dry. Each is written the way the psychic reads it out, with notes on what the disagreement usually exposes and which prompts to keep for late in the night.
The questions
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Where does pineapple on pizza fall between crime and delicacy?
Why ask it
A safe first spectrum because everybody already has an opinion and no feelings are at risk. It also shows the table how far apart two reasonable people land on the same word.
Where does cereal fall between soup and not soup?
Why ask it
Definition arguments are the best kind for this game because no fact can settle them. Expect the table to split immediately and stay split.
Where does a hot dog fall between sandwich and its own thing?
Why ask it
The classic category question with no answer underneath it. Watch for the player who tries to end it with a dictionary or a legal definition, which never works.
Where does a two-hour movie fall between short and long?
Why ask it
Numbers feel objective and turn out not to be, which is the confusion this game runs on. Somebody with small children and somebody with a free Sunday will not put two hours in the same place.
Where does karaoke fall between fun and nightmare?
Why ask it
Sorts the room by how people feel about being watched, which is useful information for whatever you play next. Extreme answers here are usually sincere.
Where does texting back three days later fall between fine and unforgivable?
Why ask it
The dial position people choose usually matches their own reply habits, so the argument turns personal faster than they expect. Best with a group who know each other well.
Where does telling someone their cooking is bad fall between honest and rude?
Why ask it
Politeness spectrums expose different upbringings at the same table, and the disagreement is more interesting than the guess.
Where does keeping receipts for six years fall between sensible and unhinged?
Why ask it
Household habits make good spectrums because both extremes are real people, and one of them is sitting at your table.
Where does saying you are five minutes away when you are not fall between harmless and a real lie?
Why ask it
Everybody has told this one, which is why the honest answers come out. Watch for whoever argues it does not count as a lie at all.
Where does going to bed at nine fall between reasonable and giving up?
Why ask it
Reliable disagreement across ages, jobs and childcare situations, and nobody gets hurt by it.
Where does answering a work message at ten at night fall between dedicated and a bad sign?
Why ask it
A spectrum with genuine stakes for coworkers, which is why it plays better on a couch than in the office. The clue giver's own hours leak into the clue.
Where does haggling over a price fall between smart and embarrassing?
Why ask it
Splits along family habit and culture rather than personality, which surprises the table and produces the best stories of the night.
Where does giving cash as a gift fall between thoughtful and lazy?
Why ask it
The dial moves depending on who is receiving it, so the argument becomes about that instead. Let it drift, since that is where the good talk is.
Where does eating the same lunch every day fall between efficient and sad?
Why ask it
Somebody at the table does this, and their defense is the whole point of asking. Keep it light if it is obvious who.
Where does correcting somebody's grammar fall between helpful and insufferable?
Why ask it
Self-implicating, which makes it fun. Whoever lands hardest on helpful is usually the person who does it.
Where does still using a paper map fall between charming and stubborn?
Why ask it
Nostalgia spectrums work well later in the evening because they open stories rather than arguments.
Where does we should do this again soon fall between a plan and a pleasantry?
Why ask it
The answers show how literally people take ordinary social language, which sits behind a lot of low-level friction between friends.
Where does knowing a friend's exact salary fall between normal and too far?
Why ask it
Money privacy varies enormously between families and countries, so this exposes a real divide without anybody having to name a number.
Where does telling a friend their partner is bad news fall between loyal and out of line?
Why ask it
The heaviest prompt here, so keep it for a group that can hold it. The dial usually moves once somebody tells the story behind their answer.
Where does forgiving a ten-year-old grudge fall between healthy and letting them off?
Why ask it
Late-night territory, where the guesses matter less than what people say while defending them. Have a lighter prompt ready for afterwards.
Using custom spectrums at the table
Practical guidance for the conversation itself
What makes a spectrum work
Two opinions, not two facts
A spectrum only works if nothing can be looked up. Cold to hot works. Tallest mountain does not, because the argument ends the moment somebody reaches for a phone.
Both ends have to be reachable
If nobody would ever choose the left end, the dial only moves through half its range and guessing gets easy. Test a prompt by imagining a real person at each extreme.
One idea per spectrum
Prompts that smuggle in two variables, like cheap and tasty, make a clue impossible to give. Split them into two prompts and run both.
Write the pair down before you read it out
Saying the two ends the same way every round keeps the guessing honest. Rephrasing mid-round quietly moves the target.
Running a round with your own prompt
The sequence
- 1Read the prompt aloud, exactly as written, then set a target the rest of the table cannot see.
- 2Give one clue and nothing else: no examples, no hedging, no answering questions about it.
- 3Let the team argue out loud and place the dial without you.
- 4Reveal the target, then ask the two people who were furthest apart to explain themselves. This is where the game stops being about points.
Reading the table
- Nervous clue givers describe their own position rather than the target. That is normal, and worth noticing rather than calling out.
- A prompt that produces silence is too abstract. Drop it instead of explaining it.
- A prompt everybody agrees on instantly is a warm-up, not a round.
- If an argument turns real, move to the next prompt and pick the topic back up after the game rather than during it.
- Keep the last two prompts on this list for a small group late in the evening.
- Mixed groups who do not know each other well should stay in the first half of the list.