Questions to Ask Tarot About an Ex
Gentle, self-honoring prompts for tarot spreads about past relationships—focused on healing and clarity.
1What pattern from that relationship wants my attention now?
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What pattern from that relationship wants my attention now?
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Why this works
Turns pain into data for growth.
2What did I give that I need to replenish?
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What did I give that I need to replenish?
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Why this works
Supports restoration and boundaries.
3What truth was hard to admit at the time?
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What truth was hard to admit at the time?
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Why this works
Invites compassionate honesty.
4Where am I idealizing or demonizing?
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Where am I idealizing or demonizing?
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Why this works
Balances narratives for integration.
5What parts of me felt most unseen then?
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What parts of me felt most unseen then?
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Why this works
Names unmet needs without blame.
6What lesson is complete, and what remains?
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What lesson is complete, and what remains?
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Why this works
Distinguishes closure from continued learning.
7How can I release attachment with love?
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How can I release attachment with love?
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Why this works
Prioritizes gentle letting go.
8What boundary protects me moving forward?
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What boundary protects me moving forward?
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Why this works
Translates insight into behavior.
9What would make reconnecting truly healthy (if ever)?
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What would make reconnecting truly healthy (if ever)?
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Why this works
Sets conditions under which contact could be safe.
10What support do I need this month?
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What support do I need this month?
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Why this works
Asks for resourcing and kindness.
11What am I ready to invite now?
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What am I ready to invite now?
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Why this works
Opens space for new love or self-tending.
12How can I thank my past self and move on?
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How can I thank my past self and move on?
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Why this works
Closes with grace and gratitude.
Spread Idea: Release & Renew
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.