Questions to ask tarot, a psychic or a medium

What are you competitive about that has nothing to do with sport?

Reframes competitiveness away from the obvious and gets specifics: board games, cooking, arguing, work, driving. It also lets him admit to something faintly ridiculous, which is usually where the good conversation starts.

From: Questions to Ask an Aries Man

What are you like when you are ill?

Illness strips away the managing, so this is a shortcut to how someone handles being unable to be useful. Ask what she wants from other people in that state, since most people have a firm preference and are rarely asked.

From: Questions to Ask a Virgo Woman

What should I do about the drawer I refuse to open?

This looks silly and is not, which is why it belongs in a light set: everyone has one drawer standing in for a decision. If the reading suddenly feels pointed, that is the question you actually came with.

From: Funny Questions to Ask Tarot

Which of your friendships would be hardest to lose, and does that person know it?

Libra invests heavily in relationships but often assumes affection is obvious without being stated. The second half of the question quietly shows him a gap he may want to close.

From: Questions to Ask a Libra Man

Is there something they wanted me to have?

This one crosses into other people's property. An estate is settled by the will and the executor rather than by a reading, and presenting a claim to relatives as a message from the person who died reliably makes things worse.

From: Questions to Ask a Psychic Medium About Loved Ones Who Have Passed Away and What They Want to Say to Me About My Life and What They Want Me to Know

What is something you own or do that you would be reluctant to give up for someone?

Concrete and slightly awkward, which is why it works. A flat 'nothing' this early is usually flattery rather than truth, and worth gently pressing on.

From: Questions to Ask an Aquarius Man