Questions to Ask When Speed Dating
Make the most of your speed dating experience with these engaging questions that help you quickly assess compatibility, create connection, and determine if you want to see someone again.
1What's the most interesting thing you've done recently?
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What's the most interesting thing you've done recently?
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Why this works
Quick way to learn about their lifestyle and interests while revealing what they consider exciting or noteworthy in their life.
2If you could have dinner with anyone, who would it be?
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If you could have dinner with anyone, who would it be?
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Why this works
Reveals their values, interests, and intellectual curiosity while being universally engaging and easy to answer quickly.
3What's something you're passionate about?
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What's something you're passionate about?
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Why this works
Shows what drives them and what they care about most, helping you understand their priorities and energy.
4What's the best part of your day?
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What's the best part of your day?
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Why this works
Reveals their daily life and what brings them joy, helping you understand their lifestyle and happiness sources.
5If you could travel anywhere right now, where would you go?
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If you could travel anywhere right now, where would you go?
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Why this works
Shows their sense of adventure and interests while being a fun, easy question that reveals their travel preferences and dreams.
6What's something that always makes you laugh?
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What's something that always makes you laugh?
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Why this works
Reveals their sense of humor and what they find funny, which is crucial for compatibility and connection.
7What's your ideal way to spend a weekend?
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What's your ideal way to spend a weekend?
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Why this works
Shows their lifestyle preferences and how they like to relax or have fun, helping you understand their energy and interests.
8What's something you're looking forward to?
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What's something you're looking forward to?
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Why this works
Reveals their future plans and what excites them, showing their optimism and forward-thinking nature.
9What's the most random thing you know?
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What's the most random thing you know?
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Why this works
Fun way to learn about their knowledge and interests while showing their personality and what they find interesting.
10What's something you're proud of?
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What's something you're proud of?
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Why this works
Reveals their achievements and values while showing what they consider important and worth celebrating.
11If you could learn any skill instantly, what would it be?
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If you could learn any skill instantly, what would it be?
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Why this works
Shows their interests and aspirations while revealing what they value and what they'd like to accomplish.
12What's your favorite way to unwind?
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What's your favorite way to unwind?
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Why this works
Reveals their relaxation preferences and how they handle stress, helping you understand their lifestyle and needs.
13What's something that always puts you in a good mood?
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What's something that always puts you in a good mood?
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Why this works
Shows what makes them happy and what they value, helping you understand their sources of joy and positivity.
14If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
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If you could have any superpower, what would it be?
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Why this works
Fun, creative question that reveals their personality and what they value most in life.
15What's the most interesting place you've been?
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What's the most interesting place you've been?
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Why this works
Shows their travel experiences and interests while revealing what they consider fascinating or memorable.
16What's something you're curious about?
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What's something you're curious about?
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Why this works
Reveals their intellectual interests and what they want to learn, showing their curiosity and growth mindset.
17What's your favorite way to celebrate?
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What's your favorite way to celebrate?
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Why this works
Shows their personality and how they like to have fun, revealing their social preferences and energy.
18What's something that always surprises you?
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What's something that always surprises you?
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Why this works
Reveals their perspective on life and what they find unexpected or interesting, showing their worldview and curiosity.
19What's the best advice you've ever received?
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What's the best advice you've ever received?
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Why this works
Shows their values and what they consider important while revealing their wisdom and life experience.
20What's something you're grateful for today?
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What's something you're grateful for today?
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Why this works
Reveals their appreciation and positivity while showing what they value and what brings them joy.
Best Practices for Speed Dating
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Best Practices
Keep Questions Light and Fun
Focus on questions that are easy to answer quickly and reveal personality without being too personal or intense for a short conversation.
Listen and Respond Genuinely
Show genuine interest in their answers and ask follow-up questions. This creates connection and shows you're engaged with what they're saying.
Be Yourself and Have Fun
Don't try to be someone you're not. Be authentic and enjoy the experience. Speed dating should be fun and low-pressure.
Question Sequences
The Interest and Lifestyle Sequence
The Fun and Personality Sequence
Common Pitfalls
Don't Ask Personal or Intense Questions
Avoid questions about past relationships, family problems, or deep personal issues. Keep it light and fun for the short time you have.
Don't Try to Impress Too Much
Be yourself and focus on connection rather than trying to impress them with your accomplishments or knowledge.
Don't Ignore Their Answers
Listen to what they're saying and respond genuinely. Don't just wait for your turn to talk or ask the next question.