Speed Dating Questions to Ask
Quick and engaging questions to ask during speed dating to make a great first impression and find meaningful connections.
1What's the most interesting thing about you that I wouldn't know from looking at you?
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What's the most interesting thing about you that I wouldn't know from looking at you?
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Why this works
Reveals hidden depths and unique qualities that make them stand out from the crowd.
2If you could have dinner with anyone (living or dead), who would it be and why?
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If you could have dinner with anyone (living or dead), who would it be and why?
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Why this works
Shows their interests, values, and what they find inspiring or admirable.
3What's something you're passionate about that gets you excited?
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What's something you're passionate about that gets you excited?
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Why this works
Reveals what drives them and what they care deeply about.
4What's the best adventure or trip you've ever been on?
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What's the best adventure or trip you've ever been on?
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Why this works
Shows their sense of adventure and what they consider memorable experiences.
5What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't yet?
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What's something you've always wanted to try but haven't yet?
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Why this works
Reveals their dreams, aspirations, and what they're curious about.
6What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
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What's the most spontaneous thing you've ever done?
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Why this works
Shows their personality, sense of adventure, and how they handle unexpected situations.
7What's something that always makes you laugh?
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What's something that always makes you laugh?
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Why this works
Reveals their sense of humor and what they find funny or entertaining.
8What's your idea of a perfect day?
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What's your idea of a perfect day?
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Why this works
Shows their values, interests, and what they consider ideal or enjoyable.
9What's something you're really good at that you're proud of?
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What's something you're really good at that you're proud of?
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Why this works
Reveals their talents, skills, and what they take pride in.
10What's the most interesting place you've ever been?
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What's the most interesting place you've ever been?
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Why this works
Shows their travel experiences and what they find fascinating or memorable.
11What's something you're looking forward to in the next year?
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What's something you're looking forward to in the next year?
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Why this works
Reveals their goals, plans, and what they're excited about for the future.
12What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?
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What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?
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Why this works
Shows their values, wisdom, and what guidance has influenced them.
13What's something that always puts you in a good mood?
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What's something that always puts you in a good mood?
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Why this works
Reveals what brings them joy and happiness.
14What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?
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What's the most interesting thing you've learned recently?
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Why this works
Shows their curiosity, interests, and what they find intellectually stimulating.
15What's something you're grateful for right now?
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What's something you're grateful for right now?
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Why this works
Reveals their perspective on life and what they value or appreciate.
16What's the most interesting thing about your job or what you do?
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What's the most interesting thing about your job or what you do?
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Why this works
Shows their professional interests and what they find engaging about their work.
17What's something you're really looking forward to?
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What's something you're really looking forward to?
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Why this works
Reveals their excitement, plans, and what they're anticipating.
18What's the most interesting thing about your family or background?
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What's the most interesting thing about your family or background?
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Why this works
Shows their family connections and what makes their background unique.
19What's something you're really curious about?
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What's something you're really curious about?
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Why this works
Reveals their interests, questions, and what they want to explore or understand.
20What's the most interesting thing you've discovered about yourself recently?
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What's the most interesting thing you've discovered about yourself recently?
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Why this works
Shows their self-awareness, growth, and what they're learning about themselves.
Making the Most of Speed Dating
Expert tips and techniques for getting the most out of these questions.
Before the Event
Prepare Your Questions
Have a few good questions ready to ask, but be flexible and natural.
Dress Appropriately
Wear something that makes you feel confident and comfortable.
Arrive Early
Get there early to settle in and feel comfortable before the event starts.
During the Speed Dating
Be Present
Focus on the person you're talking to and give them your full attention.
Ask Open-Ended Questions
Ask questions that encourage conversation and reveal their personality.
Listen Actively
Pay attention to their responses and ask follow-up questions.
After the Event
Follow Up
If you're interested in someone, follow up within a few days.
Be Honest
Be honest about your interest level and don't lead people on.
Stay Positive
Keep a positive attitude and don't get discouraged by rejections.