Questions to Ask a Loved One Who Has Passed
Heartfelt questions for mediumship readings, spiritual connections, or personal reflection to honor and communicate with deceased loved ones.
1Are you at peace?
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Are you at peace?
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Why this works
Core concern for most people—seeking reassurance their loved one is okay.
2Is there anything you want me to know?
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Is there anything you want me to know?
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Why this works
Opens space for any message they need to convey without limiting scope.
3Do you have any regrets about how we left things?
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Do you have any regrets about how we left things?
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Why this works
Addresses unfinished business or conflicts that weren't resolved before death.
4What do you want me to remember most about you?
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What do you want me to remember most about you?
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Why this works
Helps identify what truly mattered to them about their life and legacy.
5Are you with other family members who passed before you?
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Are you with other family members who passed before you?
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Why this works
Comforting to imagine deceased relatives reunited in afterlife.
6Can you see me and what's happening in my life?
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Can you see me and what's happening in my life?
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Why this works
Addresses desire for continued connection and their awareness of your life.
7What was your experience of dying like?
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What was your experience of dying like?
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Why this works
Curiosity about the transition and desire to understand their experience.
8Do you forgive me for [specific situation]?
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Do you forgive me for [specific situation]?
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Why this works
Seeking closure on guilt or actions you regret.
9What happens after we die?
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What happens after we die?
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Why this works
Universal question about afterlife and what consciousness experiences.
10How can I best honor your memory?
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How can I best honor your memory?
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Why this works
Guidance on living in way that celebrates them and their values.
11Are you proud of me?
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Are you proud of me?
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Why this works
Deep desire for parental approval and validation continues after death.
12What signs have you been sending me?
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What signs have you been sending me?
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Why this works
Many believe deceased send signs; confirmation of connection.
13Is there something you never got to tell me?
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Is there something you never got to tell me?
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Why this works
Addresses things left unsaid due to sudden death or circumstances.
14Do you understand now why I [made certain decisions]?
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Do you understand now why I [made certain decisions]?
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Why this works
Seeks understanding about choices they may have questioned while alive.
15What should I do about [specific situation in my life]?
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What should I do about [specific situation in my life]?
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Why this works
Continuing to seek their guidance and wisdom for current challenges.
16Did you know how much I loved you?
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Did you know how much I loved you?
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Why this works
Addresses worry that love wasn't adequately expressed before death.
17What do you miss most about being alive?
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What do you miss most about being alive?
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Why this works
Maintains connection to their human experience and what they valued.
18Will you be there when it's my time?
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Will you be there when it's my time?
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Why this works
Comfort about own eventual death and reunion possibility.
19Is there anyone you want me to take care of or check on?
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Is there anyone you want me to take care of or check on?
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Why this works
Continuing their caring for others, honoring their concerns.
20What would you tell me if you could speak to me right now?
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What would you tell me if you could speak to me right now?
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Why this works
Open invitation for whatever message matters most to them.
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