Fun Questions to Ask on Wedding RSVP
Playful, creative RSVP questions that make your wedding more personal, break the ice, and give you fun insights about your guests.
1What song will get you on the dance floor, no questions asked?
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What song will get you on the dance floor, no questions asked?
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Why this works
Helps your DJ craft a playlist that gets everyone moving and personalizes the vibe.
2What's your favorite memory of us (the couple)?
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What's your favorite memory of us (the couple)?
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Why this works
Creates a sweet keepsake and reminds you how your relationships have shaped your story.
3Beach vacation or mountain retreat?
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Beach vacation or mountain retreat?
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Why this works
A quick either/or that's fun to tally and share at the reception.
4What's one piece of marriage advice you'd give us?
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What's one piece of marriage advice you'd give us?
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Why this works
Gathers wisdom (and humor) from guests who've been there or have hilarious hot takes.
5What's your go-to karaoke song?
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What's your go-to karaoke song?
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Why this works
Sparks fun conversations and might inspire a karaoke moment or late-night singalong.
6Team bride or team groom? (Just kidding—we're all team love!)
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Team bride or team groom? (Just kidding—we're all team love!)
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Why this works
A playful nod to your guest's origin story and how they entered your life.
7What's your drink of choice at the bar?
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What's your drink of choice at the bar?
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Why this works
Helps you stock the bar appropriately and shows you care about preferences.
8If you could describe our relationship in one word, what would it be?
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If you could describe our relationship in one word, what would it be?
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Why this works
Creates a touching word cloud or display you can feature at the wedding.
9What's your signature dance move?
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What's your signature dance move?
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Why this works
Sets a playful tone and primes guests to let loose on the dance floor.
10What's your favorite love song?
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What's your favorite love song?
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Why this works
Crowdsources romantic playlist ideas and shows what resonates with your people.
11Cake or pie?
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Cake or pie?
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Why this works
A fun debate starter—bonus points if you offer both at dessert.
12What's your favorite rom-com or love story?
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What's your favorite rom-com or love story?
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Why this works
Reveals your guests' romantic side and could inspire a fun trivia game.
13What's one thing you're most looking forward to at our wedding?
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What's one thing you're most looking forward to at our wedding?
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Why this works
Helps you prioritize what matters most to your guests and delivers on expectations.
14Coffee or tea?
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Coffee or tea?
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Why this works
Simple preference that ensures your morning-after brunch is a hit.
15What's your hidden talent?
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What's your hidden talent?
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Why this works
Uncovers surprising skills and might lead to spontaneous performances or stories.
16What's the best wedding you've ever been to, and why?
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What's the best wedding you've ever been to, and why?
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Why this works
Gathers ideas for what makes weddings memorable and what guests value most.
17Do you prefer a seated dinner or cocktail-style reception?
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Do you prefer a seated dinner or cocktail-style reception?
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Why this works
Crowdsources opinions if you're still deciding on format.
18What's your favorite way to celebrate?
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What's your favorite way to celebrate?
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Why this works
Shows how your guests like to party and helps you design the right vibe.
19What emoji best represents your reaction to our wedding invitation?
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What emoji best represents your reaction to our wedding invitation?
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Why this works
A modern, visual twist that's fun to compile and share on social media.
20What's your wish for us as we start this new chapter?
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What's your wish for us as we start this new chapter?
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Why this works
Collects heartfelt blessings and creates a beautiful keepsake to revisit over time.
Making RSVP Questions Work
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